do you have fights with your sisters?

Philippines
December 29, 2008 5:36am CST
recently, we had a fight between my sister because she does not respect me that much, i am older than her and she acts as if she is older than me. i got headache afterward.
4 responses
@djoyce71 (2512)
• Philippines
29 Dec 08
Sibling fights are natural. That really happens because you are two different people with differences. If she does not respect you, you need to do something to let her realize that she has done something really wrong. Try to talk to her and act like an older sister to her. You have the right to scold her.
• India
29 Dec 08
that's also true
• Philippines
1 Jan 09
i have the right to scold her but she will going to scold me back.
• India
7 Jan 09
Yes we have fights, and that too every now and then. But they are never too serious, and we glue together after half an hour of the fight. Actually we are so close to each other, that we can't stay away how serious the fight be. Now when there is love fights are also obvious, because they are a part of that cute relation. But that is in my case, and it doesn't happens in some cases where fights can get really serious.
• Philippines
11 Jan 09
do you think small fights is one way of building bigger fights?
@Yori88 (1468)
• Philippines
7 Jan 09
I and my sister don't have any major quarrel since we were kids until now that I am 22 and she is 19. But to my surprise we had this little misunderstanding because lately I noticed that she no longer respect me and my husband. She is staying in our house because she is still studying and I was the one who supports her since she entered college. I could not tell her that I don't like what she is doing so I decided to put it in writing. I put the letter inside her closet in her room so that she can read it secretly. Then after few days, I noticed that the gap became more intense because she is no longer talking. She goes to school then to her part time work and only goes to home to sleep. We even rarely see each other because when she arrives I am already sleeping. She is at fault and she could not accept the fact that I did mention some things is my letter regarding her attitude. I want her to have a good future so I did that. Anyway if she will not open her mind to what I told her then that is not my problem anymore. Our parents does not live with us, they are in a province and I won't let them know because I want me and my sister solve this misunderstanding between us. Anyway I am sure that time will make my sister's mind open and accept my conditions for her own good.
• Philippines
11 Jan 09
how sad... i know how it feels. yes, you have to solve it immediately so that it will not get worse.
• India
29 Dec 08
ya this same problem wid introverts . but i m only son wid my three sister out of two got married. so i love all of them very mcuh. even i miss them a lot
• Philippines
1 Jan 09
is it normal to have sibling fights?