what do i say to man when heis not pleasing me??

United States
December 31, 2008 1:51am CST
i have a man who is terrible in bed.what do i say when he happy with it and im not ?help
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10 responses
@miamilady (4924)
• United States
30 May 09
You say..."ummm sweetie? You're not done yet!"
@srganesh (6348)
• India
11 Feb 09
Switch your roles on bed and act as if you were a man and he were a woman.Show him the way exactly how you want it.I think he will understand your feelings and the way you wanted to get treated.Don't hesitate to act out.Cheers!
@rocker21 (2717)
• India
28 Jan 09
tell him and not mylotters!
@bombshell (11266)
• Germany
8 Jan 09
why, is your partner never ask that you are happy with it?what a partner hey!partner should ask that if she is happy or not.you should talk openly about this matter.tell him that you are not happy the way he is making love with you.
@sona22 (1431)
• India
3 Jan 09
Very sad. You must talk him. And finally go to a doctor or counselor. He will guide you and your man. Do not spoil your time. The unhappiness may cause depression.
@springs (926)
• India
2 Jan 09
Hi, This is our enjoyment dear,no compromise.If he is terrible to you then make it reverse and tell him how to make you feel better.Be happy on bed hehehe....
• Pakistan
31 Dec 08
Find out the reason he for his not being good in bed. He definitely is not born with it. Although there is a good chance you will hurt his feelings, talking helps a lot. Good Luck:).
@fffdile (421)
• Italy
31 Dec 08
what do you mean by not pleasing? maybe you have just to tell him what do you like to do in bed
• India
31 Dec 08
hi friend , life is not all about having good time in bed its more than that . I would like to ask you , how is he in real life , is he a loving guy ? then you have to love him in return and spend some time to understand his problem in bed. may you can go to a doctor . I am sure a women can change a man and your life will be full of joy. Happy new year my friend.
@Rozie37 (15499)
• Turkmenistan
31 Dec 08
Marry him. No, just kidding. I say that because a lot of married women say the same thing. But seriously, if you are not married, I can not comment in such a situation.