insecure and too much jealous wife, is that your kind of wife?

@mobhomeir (7565)
Philippines
December 31, 2008 4:50pm CST
Hello guys, happy new year to all of us.I hope you have a wonderful new year celebration which is unlike me here. I just want to seek and advice from you guys since we like a family here on mylot. My new year is welcome with not good situation because we resulted into a trouble with my wife. One of my wife's bad attitude which I always wish that she can minimize or cut it off, is of her being so much insecure too much of jealous. I mean her jealousy is not in a right place and always not in a right time. She's always been like this even before while we did not got married yet that I thought this will be gone as long as we would be already got married. But, I was wrong, it's more than what I expected to cut her off. I was wondering why he did that to me when in fact, (without lifting my own chair) I am a good husband to her. I never knew I was involved in another women love affair. And she knows it well. I have no vices. Yes. I have plenty of friends even before we met cause I am a friendly fellow. But when it comes to my women friends shes too much restricting to me to have a good and friendly conversation just what had happen last night during our new year's eve celebration. If I were you at my place what you will do? How would I solve this long time problem of mine..any suggestion please? Thank you and Happy New Year guys...
4 responses
@AXLAERO (426)
• Philippines
14 Mar 09
its normal for a girl to be jealous.im that kind of girl you know.i always get jealous because theres a reason why i always get jealous.sometimes, agirl is always jealous because theres a reason.maybe she saw something or her husband do something before that is not good so the wife has no more trust to her husband.
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@AXLAERO (426)
• Philippines
14 Mar 09
well maybe your wife is the problem and not you.if she has no reasons to get jealous,then she should stpo getting jealous with nothing.butyou know what,i think your wife loves you that much thats why shes always jealous.sometimes,love makes a person selfish.maybe your wife wants you to focus on her and get all yor attention.theres an advantage and disadvantage of getting jealous.if a person is jealous,it means that the she they feel for you is so strong.but the disadvantage is that she dont trust you eventhough your faithful,its unfair for your partner that you suspect him with something that he didnt do.
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@mobhomeir (7565)
• Philippines
15 Mar 09
yes you're right. Jealous is normal but we must put it on right and reasonable way...thanks..
@djoyce71 (2512)
• Philippines
14 Mar 09
Wow! Maybe, you're too handsome that your wife would not want other girls to meet and befriend you. Joke! This is just a thought my friend. Maybe, you did something in the past that hurt her and that one left a mark on her that she could not forget until now. Sometimes, there's a painful part of life that strucks us even though it happened a long time ago. It keeps coming back. You should talk to her, heart to heart, and assure her of your true love. Sorry for this late response my friend ha. Good day!
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@mobhomeir (7565)
• Philippines
15 Mar 09
he he he he he you really make me laugh. No it's opposite of what you're thinking. I can't remember myself I did something that made her suspicious. We talked about it already and she never believe in me. She insisted that once a husband away from his wife everything would be inverted. She included me from all the husbands that had an illicit affairs with other women. I explained to her that I can't do it because I have a commitment and serious authority on our church. Still, she's deaf and continue on her negative attitude with me...I just hope and pray I could resist and survive all this burden I am carrying...thanks anyhow, better late than never...Cheers
• India
5 Jan 09
Hmm...being happily single, I really don't know what to say. Why not visit a marriage counselor? Or some marriage guide who might pinpoint your wife's problems and give you counseling? Apart from this, I really have no suggestions my friend. Cheers and happy Mylotting
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@mobhomeir (7565)
• Philippines
14 Mar 09
thanks anyway...just a piece of advise, be sure of your becoming wife if you already want to settle down...thanks my friend
• China
1 Jan 09
I totally feel pity for you becase my ex-girlfriend is just like your wife at this aspect. I indeed understand your situation and agony. She always picked on me about it, which almost kill all romance and happy memory between us. Actually I didn't do anything betraying her. I told her my feeling about it. And she promise she would change. But she never did, so we have to break up though we love each other. At least I found it's her unbelieving personal character that makes trouble. She was born for that. I don't blame her for that, we know it's nearly impossible for people to change their character. As for your problem, I suggest you should look back yoursef to see if there is anything you shuoldn't do make your wife feel unsafe and anxious. If there is not, I figure you should have a nice talked with her about your feeling........I hope it works, my lotter.
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@mobhomeir (7565)
• Philippines
14 Mar 09
Without lifting my own chair my friend, I am good husband with my wife. I never ever did something, even a little that my wife would have a reason to be so suspicious and got to be so jealous. We had talked it about her problem and she never listen. You're right once it is already a character it would never change. Just like the color of the tiger, you can strip off the outside color but still on the inner part of the skin the stripe color is still there...I just hope and pray she could minimize it and put it on a proper way..thanks for your concern friend...Cheers