i'm so tired about that

Indonesia
January 1, 2009 8:44am CST
i have a little friend ... i don't want to say that name but he's 14 years old and me 19. since i know him ... he still make me angry and he's so naughty boy. Sometimes he insult me when he have a big problem. his mail has been hacked by someone. i don't know why but he indict me ... why he so stupid ? will he kill me slowly ? I honestly feels annoyed ... whatever to say I hate him ... I hate and i don't like to meet him again ... have you want to say something ? giving suggestion or advice ? was my action wrong ? finally, i've been confused by him ... always
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4 responses
@marty3888 (2355)
• Acme, Michigan
1 Jan 09
Try this. Call him out on it. tell him though I was not the one who hacked your computer, if I had a friend who I thought hacked my computer, I would not want to be his friend anymore. And truthfully, you wouldn't. If he see's he's losing a friend, he may back down. At that point , talk to him about the way he's treating you. As far as the naughty boy thing, that's because he's 14. But using you as someone to blame things that should not be tolerated.
• Indonesia
1 Jan 09
yeah... but he thinks I'm a liar. He always negative thinking to me ... and sent me some message that insult me frequently... Beside that i still preparing my job at that time... and he don't want care it. After that way I couldn't do anything. Maybe I have to be patient...
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@mzplased (255)
• United States
1 Jan 09
You have to remember the boy is only 14. He is going to act in a childish way because he is still a child himself. It isnt fair that he blmaed you for something that you did not do, I would be angry also. If he annoys you and is as horrible as you say, I wouldnt be his friend either.
• Indonesia
1 Jan 09
unfortunately he's only take care of himself. I'll try to help him but he didn't hear it.
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@donsky14 (5947)
• Philippines
1 Jan 09
Hey, if his really your friend then it'll be easy for you to talk to him and tell him how you feel. Sometimes people don't really notice that their doing something that other people hate...maybe you need to tell him the things that annoy you. Just try to talk to him. Good luck!
• India
3 Jan 09
well he is anger n he must be convinced tht he has teh reasons to blame u try to talk to him n try to make him convince u of his claims thn then try to bust his arguements! happy lotting and have a blessed new year