Do you agree with poligamy?

@m31212y (481)
Indonesia
November 8, 2006 8:11pm CST
My partner recently mention this to me and I was hurt. Do you think that this is acceptable?
7 responses
@MIO82001 (594)
• Romania
23 Nov 06
NO I DON'T ...
@m31212y (481)
• Indonesia
23 Nov 06
Thanks for your response.
• Romania
23 Nov 06
I'm not agree with poligamy. Love it's only for a special person , not for 30 or more
@m31212y (481)
• Indonesia
23 Nov 06
Thanks for your response.
@istanto (8548)
• Indonesia
9 Nov 06
Well, Im disagre with poligamy. that's not good unless you can give your time and attention on booth with same percentage.
@m31212y (481)
• Indonesia
23 Nov 06
Thanks for your response.
@birthlady (5609)
• United States
13 Nov 06
Thank you for copying my question. It is a complement to be imitated.
@manzician (4727)
• India
9 Nov 06
I dont have any problem with it...
@m31212y (481)
• Indonesia
23 Nov 06
Thanks for your response.
@skeemy (138)
• United States
9 Nov 06
In my opinion, despite the law...it should honestly be the choice of the people involved. Aslong as they're all consenting adults...why am I supposed to care? I've known people that have brought other people into relationships and it's destroyed the original relationship, but again--they're consenting adults, let them figure it out for themselves.
@m31212y (481)
• Indonesia
23 Nov 06
Thanks for your response.
• United States
9 Nov 06
In most places it is against the law. Even if you are of a mind that poligamy is something you would consider and you also were intending civil disobedience to the law as form of protest, what stikes me here is that you do not say what kind of partnership you have. If you have a marriage, or an engagement, I think it is pretty tacky to wait until now to feel you out about this subject. If you are newly partnered, and have feeling for but have not acted upon your union with this partner, then I think at least there is some honor in bringing it up before you are too far into the relationship and feel you are giving up an investment. Personally I would not want the complications of poligamy. You do not just add a set number of problems with each "mate" the problems are multiplied expotentially. Relationships with one person are enough work for me, I would get out if I found I was being drawn into a poligamist relationship. I would also make it quite clear that if I found out there was not exclusivity in my relationship, that I would not continue in the relationship. With all the STD's around, you really are taking way too many chances to have to trust more than one other person. Trust would be something that the person asking me about joining in a poligamy, would have to re-earn from me. I would not just trust that they said, well ok then, it was just a thought... the thought comes up for a reason.. and on hearing my answer, they would be more likely to lie to me to keep me than to tell me the truth about their activities.
@m31212y (481)
• Indonesia
23 Nov 06
Thanks for your response. It really helps me a lot... give me a lot of thinking but not a decision yet. Thanks again for giving me a handful of advice.