How to dump a Lover

The word "DUMP" would really hurt even if you do it slowly or with less pain---it is still painful! so y love a person if u have the plan of dumping him/her... u r not loving but u r just using this person out of your loneliness or whatever your reason is. Much better if we use the word "Let go or set free" rather than dumping coz loving someone is not the same as dumping a garbage. Right?

i dont think you will ever have the chance to break up with someone without hurting his/her feelings. why would you even use a strong word "dump" if you did not have any intentions of hurting someone. the word is hurtful enough.