At what point did you say " I Love You" ?

United States
January 2, 2009 6:08am CST
So you are dating someone and things are getting serious. How soon did you say those three words to the other person? Did you wait a week...month...2.3.4...never...lol Or did that person say it to you? And how was the reaction?
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• United States
3 Jan 09
I have been dating my man for 2 years and he said i love you after two days and it's been great since
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@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
2 Jan 09
If one has good level of understand between the he and his partner, then there is no need to utter these words, his gestures and action will communicate a lot about his attachment and bonding and caring towards the other.
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@gbolly54 (661)
• Nigeria
2 Jan 09
Love is an intense feeling that can hardly be disguised or suppressed. Therefore, no specific time is fixed for expressing it. Indeed, the word " I love you" will just come out involuntarily. It is only a simulated love that can be subjected to a specific time to proclaim. In most cases, the man is the first person to express the feeling of love due to the cultural restraints facing women in my society.
@jeiyah_12 (1041)
• Philippines
2 Jan 09
It depends on the situation if I'm really falling hard to the person I'm gonna say that three words, it doesn't matter if I'm girl what important is I get the chance to show the person I love the feelings I have for him. It's more like being honest to myself and to him. One situation that I have encountered before was when I started liking someone who is my friend, it started on simple jokes in text messages until we get serious. I told him that I'm starting to like him already after several weeks after he confessed that he's been in love with me in very long time already. I laughed then I said, it's kinda a mutual understanding. It's weird to think about but we never ended up as couple it's more on a trust-relationship and company rather than on a commitment. I can say that I can speak out myself and show the person I love him. I think it's great! Happy mylot! Keep on posting! Happy new year! jeiyah_12
• Norway
2 Jan 09
I never said I love you to my other boyfriends until i met my hubby. I think we have been for almost a year before I have told him that I love him..
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• Singapore
2 Jan 09
Haha it really depends on the situation. If you really feel the time is right, say it. As for me, the guy whom I am currently dating with start saying I love you to me. At that point of time however, I wasn't really ready yet but he was sweet enough to respect my decision :) He did not stop saying I love you to me though. Of course he asked whether its okay if he says that. Somehow slowly, I could see how sincere he is in loving me and started saying I love you too to him. The words just suddenly came out because my heart says so.
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