advice me please

United Arab Emirates
January 6, 2009 11:27am CST
A friend call me and said 'i need a child, anybody can give me. all i need is a child i dont care who is ready to give me one but i need a child, a female child if possible.' He is badly in need of a child and confidented in me. He is not asking me but i must advice him.mylotting what can i tell him?
3 responses
royce22
@royce22 (303)
• Philippines
6 Jan 09
Tell him to adopt a female child! That's the only way!
myadun1
@myadun1 (14)
• United Arab Emirates
6 Jan 09
he said he need a child of his own not an adopted child his own child to call him daddy
shanemre
@shanemre (357)
• Saudi Arabia
7 Jan 09
The question is why he wants a child? having a child is not just like having a pet. It's a lifetime responsibility. The child will not grow up by itself if he decides to change his mind along the way... But I guess, If he is whole hearted about having a child... he can adopt. He can't just ask some girl to make a baby and then let that girl forget about the child...
musecalliopeia
@musecalliopeia (7)
• United States
6 Jan 09
Unfortunately, children are not so easily come by, and thank the gods for that. Children are a *huge* responsibility. You might suggest that he get involved in the Big Brothers/Big Sisters program, which would allow him to affect a child's life in a positive way fairly quickly, but which would not put too much strain on him financially.