Cheating Companions

United States
November 8, 2006 10:53pm CST
Have you ever been cheated on? The longer the relationship, the worse it is, do you agree? Tell me some stories about your experiences with a cheater. How did it happen, with who, did you love them, do you still love them, etc.....
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• Mexico
9 Nov 06
I have never been cheated on thankfully. I think it is a terrible thing to do, if you want to be with different people you shouldnt be in a relationship to begin with. I couldnt even imagine how i would feel if someone cheated on me i would be crushed.
• United States
9 Nov 06
Yeah, I'll tell you it's a one of a kind feeling.Crushed is too lite of a word to describe the feeling. It's not so bad in the beginning or with someone who you're not close with, but try 12 years and with someone who was your best friend at one time, who dated your brother for 9 years and cry to you every time they had problems, and also is in you face everyday pretending to be your friend but instead she wants your man. Not too good is it.
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@deeds14 (815)
• United States
9 Nov 06
I went out with someone for 2 months, and ended it because we never saw each other. I later found out that he cheated on me every week with a different girl. What was the point of ever going out with me? It didn't upset me too much because we didn't know each other that well, plus I can't care about someone who would do that to me. I agree, the longer the relationship, the worse it would be. You'd get attached. What about you?
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• United States
9 Nov 06
I have and I tell you that is the worst feeling in the world. I was in a relationship for 12 years when it happened to me and also had 4 children. To top it off, it was with a friend of 15 years or so that went out with my brother for 9 years. I was there for her when she was crying over my brother. We were best friends at one time, even went to disney world together. Then the whole time it was going on, she was in my face still pretending to be my friend. It went on for about 3 months before I found out. I completely trusted him and loved him and never in a million years thought that would happen.especially not like that. It actually felt like someone was ripping my guts out when I found out.
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@deeds14 (815)
• United States
16 Dec 06
Wow, you must be a very strong women to have gotten through that! I don't know why people do the things they do sometimes. It's despicable what happened to you, and I'm really sorry. God is loving to us, even when no one else is. We'll always have that!