Can I Aksed You A Question???

@sconibear (8016)
United States
January 6, 2009 11:41pm CST
Ok, first let me get the disclaimer out of the way...... i am in no way prejudice, only curious. we're all on this planet together and i love all my fellow human beings........except for the idiots and the jerks. anyways, i watch some of those TV court shows and daytime talk shows, and i was noticing that a lot of black people say "aksed" instead of "asked" "I AKSED her for her phone number, and she AKSED me watcha want it for" also why do some people call it a CRICK when there's no "I" in CREEK??? or WARSH when there's definitely no "R" in WASH??? anyways......just wondering.
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20 responses
• United States
7 Jan 09
its not a black thing i think its a southern thing because my mom is southern and white and says all of those things lol.. wrestling is rassling.. verizon is verri son.. squash is sqarsh.. crap i wish i could think of all of them lol
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• United States
7 Jan 09
bomb is bum dynamite is danny mite swing is swang rinse is ranch plastic is placsfjkerjrigufjgkd...... chit!
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• United States
7 Jan 09
I don't have an accent.... ask sndcain! do I? huh? spake up gurl!! tell em!!!
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@sconibear (8016)
• United States
7 Jan 09
OK...i can see that this discussion has caused "the south to rise again" when you say "remember" do you actually say "member"??? member that one time..........
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@ktosea (2025)
• China
7 Jan 09
I think it's just a habit or custome to themselves, how is it a big deal? people have their own cultures and habits and we should respect that.we think these peoples that way and what would you expect from them?
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• Canada
7 Jan 09
Hey Sonybear The person by the name of ktosea is from another country. That country has many languages and dialects. English is probably his second language. So I think your response was a bit harsh. As to your question: I too watch the day time judge shows and that very thing has puzzled me too. Where the heck did aksed come from? It sounds like someone took an ax and axed the other person. I guess there are regional and cultural differences. I am Canadian and a lot of Americans snicker and find it funny the way we say "about". To me it sounds the same as you guys say it but apparently it is not.
• United States
7 Jan 09
awwwwww...... I'm getting that warm fuzzy feeling! you two are gonna be really good friends *awwwww*
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@sconibear (8016)
• United States
7 Jan 09
hmmmmmm........did i say it was a big deal???......NO!!! did i say i didn't respect them???......NO!!! did i say i expect anything from anyone???......NO!!! perhaps you didn't read the first part of my post. i was just wondering..... i was just asking a question, or STARTING A DICUSSION........that's what we do here on myLot. but thanks.....Have A Nice Day!!!
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• United States
7 Jan 09
Well now I's or eyes ain't an expert on speech, but I certainly am an expert on extended informational linguistic electronic telecommuncative interconnections and I have the ability to interpret the intentional if not subconscious meanderings of some expanded thought processes that include bold and normal concepts with symbols that create pictures in the minds of mere mortals. All the gibberish is completely decipherable if you just add a few hand gestures into the mix it all becomes both audible and visually clear. The transparency of the mind of the pea son who accesses the questions is flip pin' ole taught sand see in if dare is any office able to cipher his thinning. Eyes seeing if he gets what he is looking four. I think I spent too much time washing T.V. my pick sure is not spelled white. So don't ask where I learned.
• United States
7 Jan 09
did you really get that bear?
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@sconibear (8016)
• United States
7 Jan 09
ummmmm...........yes sir???
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• United States
7 Jan 09
I can transliterate my writing if you missed my points... But I'd love to see Stormy do it... ;)
• United States
7 Jan 09
As for the CRICK and WARSH thang.... that's hillbilly tawlk! (I'm fluent in that language!) I mean....... IF I had an accent... Why do Yankees call it cooffee instead of cawfee??? huh? I could sit and listen to you guys tawlk fancy all day and never get tarred of it! hahaha!
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@sconibear (8016)
• United States
7 Jan 09
who the hell says COOffee??? one time when my brother lived in Missouri......we went looking for him at his job when he first got there.....so i asked this old dude if he knew how to get to Firestone. and he kept saying, the TAR store.....and i kept saying, no Firestone...and he kept saying, the TAR store....and i said NOW LOOK OLD MAN...I'M LOOKING FOR FIRESTONE!!! anyways, this exchange went on for like 15 minutes, until i realized he was saying the TIRE store.... i guess you had to be there.
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• United States
7 Jan 09
Hmmmm..... makes perfect sense to me....... the TAR store!!! *mumbles* city dudes!!! geeeees!
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• United States
8 Jan 09
I'm from Missouri. That story about the tar store is funny. I have a bit of an accent myself.
@WATARIKENJI (1534)
• Philippines
7 Jan 09
Tongue problem bro. I think they are just styling.
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• United States
7 Jan 09
I felt it plum over here! woooo!
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@sconibear (8016)
• United States
7 Jan 09
i feel what yer sayin'
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• China
7 Jan 09
I think it is their habit,the language is always updated everyday!All the language ia always like this,it is just a tool to communicate,the important thing is that it can be undersatood by the people! Thanks for your experience!Best Regards!
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@sconibear (8016)
• United States
7 Jan 09
thanks.....i undersatood what you're saying perfectly. and you're very welcome for my experience. Have A Great Day!!!
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@riyasam (16556)
• India
8 Jan 09
thank goodness,you reminded me,i have got lot of warshing to be done.actually,you neednt remind me,the room stinks!!so lucky for the kids,they dont have do their warshing.i have to do theirs also(rant)
@sconibear (8016)
• United States
8 Jan 09
kin you do my warshing too??? you can take it down to the crick to warsh.
• Canada
8 Jan 09
LOL I see that you put "eh?" in one of your replies and all I have to say is 1 I am canadian and 2 if find it really funny that all the americans say we say it when in reality they say it all the time. eh! is slang for hey and I always use hey LOL I hear the natives say it more so than anyone else so that must be where you all get the idea that we all say it. Oh and to get back to your topic, I think alot of times it is also how you are taught to speak. I have a friend that says weird things and sometimes I don't understand her so I ask her what the heck she is talkin about and she tells me LOL People from the east coast of canada say things weird too. Like "Shoore" instead of sure. and instead of saying "so" they say "Some" LOL like "I am some Mad" Or "you must be some happy" LOL it is all in how they were raised they had no control over it but one thing that has always gotten me thinking is how did our ancestors even begin to speak that way LOL
• Canada
9 Jan 09
You are too funny for words lol I remembered more after I posted this too lol My mother is french and in her 30 yrs in western alberta she still can't say alot of words properly LOL she say Hoil for oil and Heat for eat. oh and Tree for Three lol she takes out H's in some words and puts them in other words LOL
• United States
10 Jan 09
Aww, it just happens, You know it wasn't planned that way, it just happened... Now you don't have to touch that with a tall Italian or a short pole??? Okay, I'm not touching that even if it is backwards... or not... :)
• United States
8 Jan 09
Why did you make me think of eye-talion? I know I had to be taught that was disrespectful speech to It-talions from It-all-lee... ;)
@uath13 (8192)
• United States
8 Jan 09
Now can I AXE you a question? Are you making fun of our accents? Fine I'll switch to my irish one. I'm givvin er all I got captn.
• United States
8 Jan 09
Oh' she's comin apart at the seems *back ground noises and visual shaking and or vibrating* Quite the ship she was, is or could be, I have to find me one of them... Was that a star ship?
@uath13 (8192)
• United States
8 Jan 09
You caught me, that's why he's called Scotty.
@sconibear (8016)
• United States
8 Jan 09
so you're doing an Irish guy doing a Scottish guy then.......cuz you know Scotty from the starship enterprise was Scottish you know............i'm pretty sure..........i think..........yeah no he was. [b] she con't haanndil the strain capin!!![/b]
@Sissygrl (10912)
• Canada
8 Jan 09
I dunno sconi, but i'm glad you axed somebody.
@sconibear (8016)
• United States
8 Jan 09
yeah, i think i still dunno.
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@singlemommy (2955)
• United States
8 Jan 09
I think it is just different accents. It has alot to do with how your parents said words, etc. I'm from Missouri and yes, I have a bit of a "country" accent, but nothing like my niece in Arkansas. Everyone does tease me about my accent and my daughter has the same accent as I, so I would definitely say it has to do with hearing your family say words.
@sconibear (8016)
• United States
8 Jan 09
YUUP.......my brother lived in St. Joseph for about 10 years and he still has an accent. i lived there for about a year but i'm immune from different accents.
• United States
8 Jan 09
Ok, I was sitting here reading that whole thread on the south. Just for the record, I have lived in the south all my life, and I don't say any of those things, especially not warsh, or ranch/wrench. That makes me nuts!
@sconibear (8016)
• United States
8 Jan 09
that's cool, i used to work for a lady out here in Vegas who made her own version of Faberge Eggs using swaroski crystals, she makes them out of real goose and ostrich eggs. the last year or so i worked for her, she started making jewelry, that's why your stuff caught my eye.....your pieces are very, very nice though.
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@sconibear (8016)
• United States
8 Jan 09
yeah, warsh and crick are kind of my pet peeve words......but watcha gonna do??? cool website BTW bo, did you make that jewelry???
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• United States
8 Jan 09
Yeah, crick kind of makes me cringe, too, sconi. Thank you, and yes, I did make the jewelry. I am in the process of finishing a collection to put up on the site. I am also in the middle of re-vamping it. So, check back in on it in a week or so.*S* Irish, I have noticed a lot of people do that. A friend told me once that I was the only person she knew who could take a one syllable word and make it three.*L* I try very hard not to do that, since then. *L*
@kprofgames (3091)
• United States
8 Jan 09
Don't have clue other than slang, but really with school and phonics and what nots, you'd think that people would pick up on standard speech. I know this older couple. 83 he is and they was WARSH. Said their parents did and their grandparents. So didn't know if that was how they understood it being said when they first got off the boat when they were learning English or what. Accents are different everywhere you go. Northern states have a french influance and the Southern ones, well I have to really slow down to understand them. hmmmm, maybe I should aksed them next time I'm warshing my stuff down by the crick.
• United States
8 Jan 09
O.O im kinda southern....and i say warsh....those clothes warshed yet? sounds better then washed yet....idk crick makes me think of cricket..... and the aksed thing is just really really annoying
@sconibear (8016)
• United States
8 Jan 09
yeah...aksed is the one that has me puzzled.....i think it might be a word that court tv shows just made up.
• India
8 Jan 09
Yes, I know you are curious and its just a very common mistake which many people are not aware of. English is a very widely used language over the world yet there are not many schools and teachers who actually teach the language properly and with proper diction. There are many nitty gritty applications and pronunciations which, if someone is not from a good English school, will never understand. Here in India, English is widely taught, though not flawlessly, and you will find many such mistakes all over. And by the time you point out that its not ‘aks’ but ‘ask’ they are already habituated to speaking it that way!
@SomeCowgirl (32191)
• United States
8 Jan 09
I went down there by the crick and warshed my clothes, then hung them up on that there tree to dry. I don't know why people of the African American Persuasion say Aksed, but then again I have nothing to say, I say Warshed sometimes... lol.
@sconibear (8016)
• United States
8 Jan 09
yeah, i guess it's all about where you live. different kinds of people all over the place.......that's cool.
@penny64 (1106)
• Australia
10 Jan 09
I'm Strine (as in "Australian" in your accents). People never AXE questions here ... they ARKS questions! ... and I CARNT understand why anyone would put an R in WASH.
@Opal26 (17679)
• United States
7 Jan 09
Hey sconi! I see that you still are wearing your Nigeria shirt! I guess you are still waiting for that "windfall"! I know what you mean about "aksed" and that drives me nuts! I don't know why that is such a difficult word to say! And there's others too! My bf is black and there are a few words that he mispronounces that I keep correcting him on all the time! I don't know why or how he learned to pronounce them wrong, but it bugs the crap out of me! He doesn't say aksed! I'm not racist by no means, but it does seem to be a racial thing with that particular word and some others. I just want him to speak correctly because I love him and he knows it! But, then again English was one of my best subjects!
@sconibear (8016)
• United States
8 Jan 09
yeah.......i mean yes. i guess it's all about location, and culture.
• United States
8 Jan 09
I find myself correcting both white and black people from trying to "aks" me anything. The one that really gets on my nerves is "finsta". You may have heard it as "fiddenta" or "fixing to". That on is like nails on a chalkboard for me. I have to keep from screaming it GETIING READY TO, PREPARING TO, ABOUT TO DO!
@timmons (120)
• United States
8 Jan 09
Its all a matter of upbringing and where people come from. words and accents like that are a product of many generationd of talking like that. To people who speak in that manner you probably sound just as funny when you speak. It's our job as hun=mans to accept oters for who they are.