what's the number one reason couples break up?

Philippines
January 7, 2009 1:34am CST
i have known a lot of people who have been together for quite a long time and then, in just a blink of an eye, they were able to end their relationship that easy... i don't know why this happen... those who are stable for years already usually end everything that easy... not even able to reach marriage... while those who are just together for not so long, they are the ones who usually end up in the altar... what's wrong??? reasons may vary from person to person... but i know there is really something that is common as to why couples break up...
6 responses
@alecz23 (486)
• Philippines
7 Jan 09
one reason according to survey is money second is cheating
• India
7 Jan 09
ok, but love is also one cause, They have to love eachother
• India
7 Jan 09
the major thing is understanding, They have to love partner's weekness, then only then can live together
• Philippines
7 Jan 09
yeah... understanding also play a major role in a relationship...
@bbsr13 (4196)
• India
7 Jan 09
Hello! Intolerance towards each others feelings is the main reason of breakup in relationship along with many other reasons.thanx.
@jesbellaine (4139)
• Philippines
7 Jan 09
Hello There! That is what I am afraid of. I have known other people in fact they are my friends who had a relationship with their long term boyfriend for like three years or so but with just one big mistake or reason, they broke up. Most of the reasons I heard were cheating boyfriend/girlfriend and lost of interest to one another. I asked my friend why is it easy to break up when they have been together for too long, I mean, the memories were all there, the pictures, celebrations and everything… she said, there is no better explanation but “it didn’t work out”. Real reasons were kept within them… so I am afraid that it will happen to me and to my boyfriend. I hope not. I keep the faith and trust going! And faith in God that he will make our relationship stronger with all the trials and everything. Goodluck and thanks for the discussion! Happy Mylotting! Cheers!
@cathya (704)
• Philippines
7 Jan 09
for me number one reason for break ups is misunderstanding , second miscommunication and lastly cheating.
@winieann (234)
• Philippines
7 Jan 09
they're just not meant for each other. i have a stable relation ship for 5 years now and i am not planning and hopping of ending it. my fist tho and with my strong will my last. reasons couples break up? a lot of stuff but for me communication. that has had to be in every relationship or else you can call it quits/done/amawtahere. ^_~