how good are you in a relationship????

@jumz29 (23)
Philippines
January 7, 2009 2:57am CST
its been 3 years now that i stayed single...i almost forget how to curt a girl..hehee..i had a gf that lasted just 1 year and the last ended 3 months...so i keep asking my self am i not that good enough to handle relationship???or what??
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@maean_19 (4655)
• Philippines
8 Jan 09
Hi jumz29! Being good or bad in a relationship does not depend on the length of the relationship whether it is long or short. And I disagree that you are not good in handling relationships. In my case, my shortest relationship was 2 or 3 weeks (can't recall) and my current is 4 years. I cannot say that it was my fault alone why my 2 or 3 weeks relationship did not last a little longer or have at least reached a month. There are so many factors for a relationship to last long and it is not established or created by you alone or the girl alone. "It takes 2 to tango" as the saying goes. Gone are the days about long courtships, although here in the Philippines, there are still those who really want to be courted. Just be yourself. Do not be too trying hard to make a relationship perfect because there's no such thing as "perfect relationship"...Good Luck to your next relationship!
@underdogtoo (9579)
• Philippines
7 Jan 09
I think that practice makes perfect. This holds true with relationships too, in my humble opinion. Cheers!!
@bbsr13 (4196)
• India
7 Jan 09
Hello! The relationship depends on many things like understanding each other,regard feelings and emotions of each other and trust each other.If there occur any deviation relationship would sure to break.Our relationship is very strong.ours is a long forty years relationship.thanx.
@enavnai13 (509)
• Philippines
7 Jan 09
i'm not good in relationships! i had been into 8 relationships already and none even last a year... the longest was like 6 months only... most of it lasted only for weeks or a month or so... my last relationship lasted for a year and i thought that would be the longest but since i found this one i have right now, i hope this would be it!!! hehehe s far this is the longest and i am still counting... maybe you just haven't found the right one yet... don't worry it will, in time... good luck to you!