what would you do
@babyfirefighter (568)
United States
January 11, 2009 10:47am CST
I have a friend that is 21 years old. Currently she is in a relationship with a man which I am happy for her. But, the guy that she is seeing is 49 years old. He will me turning 50 this month and she will be turning 22 in March. Now, like I said I am happy for her but I dont like the age difference. What would you do if you had a friend that was in this type of relationship? What do you think about the age difference would you be able to accept it?
3 responses
@kerri1981 (133)
• United States
11 Jan 09
Well I'm married to a 50 year old man and I'm 27 years old and to me it really doesn't bother me. If she's happy with the person that she with then that should be all that goes with that one. I mean you really can't pick the guy your friend choses you know. I'm not trying to be mean about this I hope you know
@ankita_gosalia (106)
• India
11 Jan 09
no try to realize her that that much age diff. is really not good for to stay more happy future life .....
@Sheepie (3112)
• United States
11 Jan 09
Well, when she is 30 he will be 60, when she is 40 he will be 70. If she has decided for herself that he is worth it, more power to her. It's kind of strange, but I doubt the guys who she would normally date, 20 something year olds, are very mature. So she probably just needs a change from that. It's more important if she has found someone she can connect with.
