Do you have the experience of falling-out with your colleague?

China
January 12, 2009 9:46pm CST
Once I can't help wrangling to one of my colleague.First we just have branchings about one project.But lately the sate was upgraded because we are both lost control of ourself.It was so bad that I found myself lost working passions.I hated to talk to him and avoided to everything connecting with him.Once everything refered to him,I felt bored and did not step more. The feeling was so bad and when I was calm I fount it's too ineffable to make the colleague realationship break up.Evermore I decide to wrangle to my colleagues anymore.After all it's just a work.
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• Hong Kong
13 Jan 09
I had this experience but that was back to several years ago when I graduated. I understand that sometimes it is very difficult to control your temper at work, especially when you find you and your colleague's opinions differ tremendously. Both of you don't want to concede a fraction. But when I get more experience about interpersonal skills at work, I find out that it is better not to confront my coworkers to the face. One never knows what will happen next. Maybe someday that colleague whom you confronted would be promoted, and maybe someday you need his help to finish some of your important tasks. Who knows? Besides, as you just said, it's just work. Don't put too much personal emotion in it. It doesn't worth it.
• China
14 Jan 09
Year,I agreed with you .It really doesn't worth.Wisdom come by suffering.I won't do that again.
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• Australia
13 Jan 09
Oh this has happened to me many times, especially with women supervisors and I am a woman, maybe it is a woman thing but over years of working with them I came to the conclusion, most women just can't handle power...it is very uncompfortable working when there is these sorts of pressures.
• China
14 Jan 09
Well I think everyone in the world would have their temper no matter man or woman.And that don't directly lead to one's handle power.I don't doubt what you experience.But who can make sweeping statement that if the womon's temper is bad then she can't handle power?