Do you think that chatting can only show so much of a person's personality?

@n30wing (4767)
Philippines
January 14, 2009 3:56am CST
Chatting cannot really show if the person on the other end of the line is sincere or is indeed the person that he/she claims to be. There were the unusual misunderstandings and issues we had to face. What probably set us apart from other relationship is that we decided to grow from that online world and take everything to the real world. Have a nice day to all of you!
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3 responses
• United States
14 Jan 09
Chatting does not fully show the personality of each person involved in the discussion. It is easy to write and type the answers you want the other person to know but it is just as easy to ignore or change the subject on items you had rather not discuss. Chatting allows people to get an idea of a person and to make a decision if they would consider carrying their relationship to the next level of a more personal experience such as a conversation on the phone or a face to face meeting. You can be anyone you want to be behind the screen of a computer and the other person is never the wiser until you cross that personal boundary. The only way to really know someone is to actually talk to them and see them face to face. It is then that they can not hide reactions, emotions, and other signs of who they are.
@n30wing (4767)
• Philippines
17 Jan 09
Your right exactly! Unless you face your chat mate face to face that is the time you will know he/her if they were honest. But if your just gonna be chatting the whole time and wont meet each ther in person it's useless. Have a nice day to you! Keep on smiling!
• United States
27 Jan 09
Thank you very much for your comment.
• Philippines
17 Jan 09
I tried chatting when this thing was still new and when I was still single. It was fun at first but later I found myself fooling myself and other people. You know that other people are pretending to be who they want and it was just a waste of time.
@n30wing (4767)
• Philippines
18 Jan 09
Hi dorisday well before I used to chat, seldom you can meet a real person. But there is still an exception to the rule and that is my fiancee who I met at the chat. Now were 2 years, but both of us stop chatting anymore that is one rule we agree on. Have a nice day to you! Keep on smiling!
• Nepal
17 Jan 09
No chatting does not shows personality Any body can caht with any name telling him/her of any age, gender. so cahtting is not way of knowing some one's personality.
@n30wing (4767)
• Philippines
17 Jan 09
Your right! But unless you meet your chatmate in person, that is the only time you know if he/she is honest and telling the truth. Have a nice day to you! Keep on smiling!