How to contact my refferals?Or even know who he/her is?

@vipinl (802)
India
January 15, 2009 9:37am CST
I today got three refferals here on my lot.. but i dont know who they are. And when i tried to contact them.. there is no option for that. I cant send them message or comment, as here they are not in my friend list. Neither they have started any discussion yet.. so that i can reply to that and ask who they are. Its bit strange,i really think the people who join through your refferal link should be directly added to your friend list, so that you can contact them... Or they will leave without posting a single post.. as this site is really hard to get without guidence. I dont think there is anyway that i can contact them....huh
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@mtdewgurl74 (18118)
• United States
16 Jan 09
They aren't in your friends? When I had referrals all of them immediately ended up in my friends so maybe they are doing it different this time? I can't get none of the 11 referrals to work on Mylot so good luck with yours.I hope you find out where they are. I wouldn't have a clue if they just didn't end up there..it is a strange occurrence for sure.
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@vipinl (802)
• India
16 Jan 09
Hii mtdewgurl.. here a friend request is send to the refferals automatically, your reffeals would have accepted that, so they directly come to your friend list.. while in my case my friend request is pending... also if you notice when some one sends friend request.. it is shown as 1 friends, not as 1 friend request.. so they might be thinking that i am alredy in there friend list. I too hope they post some discussion or any message to me...lol. happy myloting
@mtdewgurl74 (18118)
• United States
16 Jan 09
Well, I hope you find your little lost sheep soon and are able to communicate with them soon.good luck
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• United States
16 Jan 09
i could be wrong but i dont think you can do anything till they add you..
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@vipinl (802)
• India
16 Jan 09
you are rite.. nothing i can do till they accept friend request. happy myloting
@kun2349 (23475)
• Singapore
16 Jan 09
haha.. Then it's gonna be too bad.. Most might join mylot for the money and as they are newbies, of course they tend to explore around for the very 1st time.. ANd since u dunno who are your referrals, but they know who u are.. Thus, if they need to know anything, they will look for u instead.. haha =D PLus, most of the time, referrals are always inactive and i just dun understand why.. This not only happen in mylot but all other sites as well.. hehe
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@vipinl (802)
• India
16 Jan 09
i dont think they know me.. lol. May have come from refferal link i put on my site, if they knew then no probs. happy myloting
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@ElicBxn (60895)
• United States
16 Jan 09
check and see if they are in your pending friend's list
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@vipinl (802)
• India
16 Jan 09
They are not in my pending friend list... but i am in there's ..rofl..happy myloting.
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@winterose (39918)
• Canada
15 Jan 09
I don't understand, once they are in your friends, list you can go to their profile and send them a message.
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@vipinl (802)
• India
15 Jan 09
hii winterrose... they are not added to ones friend list.. thats what i am saying.. if they were in my friend list then no probs. happy myloting
@checapricorn (16066)
• United States
15 Jan 09
H[i]i vipinl, I have 2 also who just signed up and didn't start any post! I want to guide them if ever they are confuse and give them some tips but there is no way to do that! ANyway, there is nothing we can do and I like your idea, I wish also it's automatic once we refer them![/i]
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@vipinl (802)
• India
15 Jan 09
hii checapricorn.. yes this system is only here that they are not directly added to your list.. or on all other refferal sites it goes only that way.. which we are suggesting. happy myloting
• India
24 Jan 09
hello there, i am facing the same problem too. i have 6 referrals, 1 of whom has no activity since he signed up.....i was just thinking if there is any way to contact them...and then, i saw your discussion....good that you have started this thread.May be the moderators will see this and make some changes in the system. By the way, is there any way to contact the moderators about such issues?? hope i could help that person out.....i think he signed up through the link that i placed on my blog...:-)