When we are away the boys will gossip.

@CRIVAS (1820)
Canada
January 18, 2009 3:14pm CST
Okay so I recently found out from my husband that when he is working, him and the boys talk about a lot of stuff, our relationship included. It got me thinking, Most guys I know don't like it when a women talkes to her friends about private matters, yet now I find that some of them do it too. So I have to ask: Does your partner talk about you when your not around? Do you talk about your partner when they aren't around? Do you think that it is good for them to talk about relationships with their friends? Personally I feel very comfortable about it, I think it is healthy for my husband to get a guys perspective of certain things, Lord knows I certainly need a girl's perspective sometimes.
2 responses
@savengt (89)
• Singapore
19 Jan 09
It is ok to talk about your partner but definitely not too personal or private issues. Nobody should know your spouse in depth as you do, like wise, nobody other than your spouse should know about your private life. Why do you need to share you private life with someone else. It is not advisable to trust any other close friend. your close friend may end up snatching your spouse after knowing much about the private life and plotting to fill that empty spot. You can share perspective and understand more about other people opinion for reference , but not too deep in detail. You should instead communicate more with your spouse and understand her/him more.
@seabeauty (1480)
• United States
18 Jan 09
My ex husband is a private person. He would never discuss our business when we were married to anyone, man or woman. I on the other hand tell everyone what is going on, even now. My ex still hates it. It wouldn't bother me if he did.