Is it necessary to control children in the name of discipline? any effect!!

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My child is very active and I am in doubt, whether to bind her in the name of discipline, or let her be happy till she becomes teen. I have only daughter 9 yrs old. She is very active.Where ever she is she attracts lot of public with her behavior. When I goes for shopping or outing, she earns lot of applaud with her funny doings and gets attention of public. She gets lots of Chocolates and kisses everyday. Not even a second she keeps quite. Sometimes, irritating sometimes fun. Sometimes I feel there is a need to subdue her activeness, on the same time, I feel, why should I, if she is not disturbing others. She from dusk to dawn active and bubbly. She is also first in studies and other extra activities. But it is sometimes irritating, when we meet some one or in parties and meetings. Many friends says, she is active and you should not stop her as she is a child. and If you subdue her, her creativity will effect. CAN ANYONE TELL ME ABOUT THE EFFECT OF SHOUTING at children in the name of discipline? I feel, child-hood is divine and at that age only actually human can enjoy without any bothering or worries. why to stop their joy? we at this age can not be as active and HAPPY as they are. on the same time, feels of discipline and society. What do you FEEL???!!! What to do and any after affects on their little minds if we punish?