why older girls, don`t want a relation with a younger boy?

@delkar (1712)
Romania
January 21, 2009 4:03pm CST
To be honest, i want an older girl, but i don`t have chances. All of them think that i`m too young, even if i look older than them.
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10 responses
14 Mar 09
To be honest I wouldn't date a younger guy. Most guys mature later than girls. I like a man thats been around a while and knows how to treat and ac around a lady without having to be told! In my experience I don't get that from younger guys. My opinion though is not held by all women, so keep looking and I'm sure one day you will meet the woman of your dreams. Good luck :)
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@delkar (1712)
• Romania
14 Mar 09
Well, another girl that tels me that she wouldn`t meet a younger boy. Now i really have a lot of hopes . Maybe i should chose a younger girl..or maybe...who knows? God will help me find the right one, that`s sure! Thanks a lot for your true opinion.
@reckon21 (3479)
• Philippines
7 Mar 09
The reason older girls doesn't like younger boys because it's all about age differences. Older girls think that young boys is not yet mature enough to sustain a relationship. Girls need security and protection. They think young boys can't match up with that expectation.
@delkar (1712)
• Romania
14 Mar 09
i think that you`re right. There are a lot of girls that seem to think just like you. Girls really need security and protection. Younger boys, i think that don`t have enough money to offer a good protection and a good security. I think that money will make a younger boy be more mature and more compatible to an older girl. I`m not sayin that girls are looking just for money, but that`s the true about the money, they really offer protection and security.
@maean_19 (4655)
• Philippines
6 Mar 09
I think I can relate with the topic. It's the opposite anyways, the older woman. I had an ex boyfriend younger that I am, obviously it did not work out. He was sweet and thoughtful, in fairness to him, however, maturity wise and decision making made me broke up with him. He thinks then that he was so mature, unfortunately he was not. Not so much of the details though. I also remember this guy, younger than I am who courted on me even when he knew I have a bf. I asked him why he wants older women and the response was that, "older one are more understanding and mature"... As per opinion, younger guys are for fun and not for serious relationships. I still prefer older men because am more intellectually challenged to them.
• United States
22 Jan 09
I am attracted to skaters and indie kids, who all usually look young, whether they are or not. I will go out in public and I find myself goggling at a guy until a little voice in my head reminds me, "He could be 25, or he could be 16....that's the problem with the guys you like."
@Frederick42 (2024)
• Canada
6 Mar 09
Girls think that young boys are childish and immature. Of course, girls themselves are not very mature, but people never can see thier own flaws. It is very easy to point out the flaws in others. Girls go after older boys because they think older boys are more mature and they have got more money with them.
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@delkar (1712)
• Romania
7 Mar 09
you`re so honest! I really think that too. Girls in general, love to go out with older boys, because they have more money and just a little maybe because they are more mature. I don`t know why, but without any offence, girls, almost all the girls want boys with money for the first "quality" . I said almost all, so, that means that maybe you`re not like that. You know better.
• Malaysia
22 Jan 09
well science had shown that girls mature faster than boys. so eventhough you have the same age as your girlfriend, your girlfriend actually is more mature. what more to say younger boys. maybe that's because why.
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@delkar (1712)
• Romania
29 Jan 09
who knows? maybe you`re wright. i girl can say all the truth, but it`s her opinion, maybe if some girls will say what they think, we, boys can make an opinion from what they said.
@Angel3yes (455)
• United States
21 Jan 09
For me, it's got to do with confidence and maturity. Most of the younger guys that I meet only show their confidence by acting cocky and playing the part of a jerk which girls tend to get over when they are about fourteen. Boys don't know how to overcome that until they are in their thirties in my opinion. Maturity is the key.
@teka44 (3420)
• Brazil
21 Jan 09
Hi delkar. Women get maturity before the men so women want things that men only will think about years after them. It is why women don't want a relationship with young boys. But all rule have exception. You must keep trying so who knows you will get your girlfriend soon. Good luck and have a nice day.
• Philippines
22 Jan 09
You know what, age doesn't really matter in the name of love. I guess you are looking for an elder sister figure or a mother figure at that. You love to be pampered and looked after. Loving is really like that. You will get those things regardless of your partner's age ( I hope!). Just look for a partner that is true, sincere, honest and mature. Just a sisterly advice. You may take it or ignore it.
@jambi462 (4576)
• United States
21 Jan 09
Well I have heard that women love confidence and I think that if you just be yourself things well eventually work out for you. I know it sucks though seeing all these beautiful women walk by you oblivious to how much you are attracted to them. Women are a very beautiful gender and they are so alluring to men maybe that's why they seem so allusive. It's hard to give advice on how to get a certain girl but I can wish you good luck for the future.