the reason for being alone

@rainzero (501)
January 22, 2009 5:12am CST
some people would end up being alone...shunning away love even they don't really want it... just not to hurt and not to get hurt... is it fear or courage?
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4 responses
@n30wing (4767)
• Philippines
23 Jan 09
Hi reinzero I think it's their choice if they wanna be alone, or not ready to get into a relationship. Specially when they are still in having their life fix, or just enjoying being single. Relationship is risky, if you don't know to handle the pain or the hurts better not to go into it. There a lot of whom that are scared, or doesn't have the courage to face responsibility and obligations, or not ready to face it. I think also it's a matter of playing it safe being alone and single. Anyway life has to go on, with a partner or with out a partner. Being alone is not yet the end of the world. That is my opinion still respect other opinion. Have a great day!
@rymebristol (1808)
• Philippines
22 Jan 09
being alone is a choice we make from time to time, when rough times comes our way, we prefer to be alone, we don't want anyone. just ourselves alone. i am that kind of a person, i prefer to be alone most of the time. but that doesn't mean that someone like that is unfriendly or anything like that, maybe that's their own way to figure out whats wrong. speaking of relationship, being alone might be due to a traumatic or tragic event in the past, those who do not want to be hurt or get hurt anymore, choose to be alone or just waiting for their doors to open once again with the right and the perfect person.
• United States
22 Jan 09
i believe that a lot of people are scared of getting hurt it happens so much in this life that everyone lives. I don't believe that many people avoid it in fear of hurting someone else because nowadays people would take someone being in love with you as an easy way to get over on someone. Alot of people end up being alone and happy and I give them props for making it in this world and not depending on someone to be there
@Patzi_md (129)
• Philippines
22 Jan 09
to be alone is a choice. Whether you end up in a bad relationship, unfortunate experiences, still you are capable to control and plan your life.