Mirror isn't enough to say truth...............?
By 70nyh0Ax
@70nyh0Ax (177)
India
January 22, 2009 1:27pm CST
Have you guys ever met people who keeps on asking the same thing specially girls??
Like i have some irritating friends in girls and boys both. Girls keep on asking me the same damn thing again and again and the only question " AM i LOOKING GOOD OR SEXY OR bEAUTIFUL " ok i made up my mind that those are girls they love to be appreciated but what is wrong with boys some of them asks me dude "does this goggles suits me" or "hey do i look good in this T-shirt" and many questions and i think this is blunder as there is mirror at everybody's home so..............MY question here is that doesn't their mirror tell them the truth? Its simple as mirror is your reflection so you can see how he/she is looking so simple..
Plz guys advice me how to get rid of this all day appreciation.
3 responses
@redhotpogo (4401)
• United States
22 Jan 09
I figure there are two reasons for asking you something again and again. #1 they like your answer. It was positive for them, so they ask you again and again to feed their egos. #2 They did not like your answer, and will ask you again and again until they get the answer they want. I have a 3 time limit. I answer a question 3 times, and then I don't answer it again.
@70nyh0Ax (177)
• India
22 Jan 09
Oh! Well i think it may be the reason. As they are my friends so i can't ignore just by not giving them any answer, if i do so that will be rude. Well i don't know how to handle them without hurting anyone of them as i like to be diplomat. NO harsh feelings for anyone.
@redhotpogo (4401)
• United States
23 Jan 09
Be careful though. You must always keep your answer the same. Girls will remember every answer you give them. If they are not all the same they will not trust you, and your friendship could be hurt. Girls are dramatic. Yeah I said it girls!
@shamsta19 (3224)
• United States
21 Mar 10
Women want to hear that they look good. They want that reassurance I guess. We as men can look in the mirror, and be satisfied with what we see. Women look in the mirror, oh we know they do!! But when they are done they want to know they have made the right choices in the mirror I suppose. I think a lot of them like the attention and want to hear the "ooohs" and "ahhhs" that come with it. Now I am sure this doesn't go for every woman but I am sure I am not off base with this one. Our jobs as men are to let them know they look good and they are keeping us satisfied. Even if you have to lie!!!
@sabrinafox89 (47)
• Philippines
21 Mar 10
Do not get offended. They just want to get assurance that they are looking good. If they ask that a lot of times then I understand why you are irate. At least, you know that mirror will be a best gift for them this coming Christmas
