Would you be a Stripper? Or Would you date a Stripper?
By SharonLynn
@SharonLynn (40)
United States
January 23, 2009 8:36am CST
Just wondering how many ladies out there would be a stripper?? (if you had the body etc) AND how many men out there would seriously date a stripper if the opportunity presented itself??
6 responses
@Uroborus (908)
• Canada
26 Jan 09
Why wouldn't I date a stripper? Are you saying that strippers are somehow flawed when it comes to things other than their bodies? I know you didn't say that, but even asking the question seems to put strippers in some sort of lower category than other women.
The way I see it they are entertainers. It's a job, and from what I've heard not a very easy one at that. When they go home from that job, they probably want to leave it behind and do most the things that most everyone else wants to do.
@Ravenladyj (22904)
• United States
26 Jan 09
asking the question seems to put strippers in some sort of lower category than other women
I agree and if I were a "touchy" woman I'd be insulted but truth is..I know the truth LOL
It's a job, and from what I've heard not a very easy one at that. When they go home from that job, they probably want to leave it behind and do most the things that most everyone else wants to do
No its not..believe it or not it was physically demanding (mind you we actually put on PERFORMANCES..it wasnt just walkin around the stage showing our livers LOL), its mentally demanding as well, you really do have to become a different person and when you walk out of that club at night and head home you REALLY DO want to just leave it behind and go back to being a normal person...at home I was me, a woman, a mom, a gf, a friend etc...at the club I was someone completely different..
@vamp6x6x6x (636)
• United States
25 Jan 09
I would never date a stripper for when I date I look for a person I could spend forever with ho I can be kind of protective over and with a stripper as a gf I think I would flip out a lot/most of the time.
@Ravenladyj (22904)
• United States
26 Jan 09
LOL I was a stripper..started when I was 17 yrs old in Ontario and I have to admit it was a great job until the mid 90s when lapdancing became legalized....Then the industry (in Ontario at least) went right down the drain..As for men dating strippers..I know many who had no problem with it because they see us as ppl not stereotyped strippers....My husband is one of them..we met in the club I worked at, been together for 10 yrs and married for 6....
i guess my question for the guys who WOULDNT date a stripper is "Why not?"
@jimssaftytips (507)
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23 Jan 09
I dont know if i could actually date a stripper. But truthfully since im alone i might do it just to be able to say im actually someone that would be a miracle for me tho lol. They have to make money somehow i suppose but i think they should have more pride in their body. But i know a body is a wonderous thing and it should be admired so i would date a stripper
@jambi462 (4576)
• United States
23 Jan 09
I would definitely be a stripper I mean why not they probably make a lot of money every night and if you're comfortable with your body then I don't see any sleaze that has to do with it. Stripper's are looked down upon by society for no apparent reason I believe because when you see them taking their clothes off and dancing they are at work earning there wages so that they can survive. That's what life is isn't it trying to survive and struggling to live. We need money to survive and you can probably make a lot by showing off your body.
