Can I get my best friend back, or atleast a friend?

United States
January 23, 2009 8:41pm CST
So, here's the story guys. I've been having problems with my best friend for a little over 5 months now. Things got bad, and it seemed as if we were fighting way too much then we should be. He said it was atleast twice a week. I think that's about right. Anyways... One day I just couldn't take it anymore. We had talked before about not being best friends anymore, and he seemed to be ok with it. He said it would hurt, but maybe it would be for the best. A week later, and several more fights, I finally told him we should go our seperate ways. He sorta freaked out on me, and was going to leave. I felt anxious that I may have made a bad choice, so I told him that if he left I would not talk to him again. I felt that I needed to make things right, and I kinda forced him to stay on. He ended up getting really pissed off and leaving anyways... So, I wake up the next day, and wonder how bad of a mess I really made of things. I waited for him that night. When I finally saw him, I instantly started talking to him. That's when I pretty much got the shock of my life. He had a lot to say, and the first thing out of his mouth was that he hated me. I decided I was going to give him some time. I waited a day and tried talking to him again. A lot had changed. He took my off his top friends. He told me he would never trust me again. He told me there's no way I'll ever get him back. Just, all kinds of stuff that just REALLY hurt me. So, right now, I'm just really confused. Is it normal for him to act this way? Should I give him time? Is it worth it to stay even though he claims he won't ever be close to me again? Wouldn't a best friend eventually come back? I don't know, I have tons of questions and I'm so confused and hurt. I don't know if I should wite a blog and just let him see how I feel, or wait for him to try talking to me. According to him, he's done. I don't know what to do, and this is important to me, help?
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@lilaclady (28207)
• Australia
24 Jan 09
Some times friends drift apart and then they come back, but when they start saying hurtfukl things like saying they hate you then I don't think they are worth even wanting as a friend..I think friendships are like the sayings, some are menat to last some are just to run a short time but all for reasons and sometimes it is just time to let go and move on, comsidering he was the the one that said the hurtful things then i would let him be the one to make the forst move back, sad as it can be, i say just move on to better...