would you love a guy who has gotten his ex-gf preggy?
By rainzero
@rainzero (501)
7 responses
@faith210 (11224)
• Philippines
27 Jan 09
Hi rainzero! I guess, it really depends if I fell in love with the guy and he truly loves me too. It would not really matter what his circumstances in life is as long as he is a better man for the lessons learned in his past. Just a thought.
Take care and have a great day!
lovelots..faith
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@faith210 (11224)
• Philippines
27 Jan 09
Hi friend! haha..Of course, you still have hope! Don't ever stop hoping and believing that one day you will find someone who is really right for you. Your past won't haunt you as long as you come into terms with it. Just be honest in any relationship you will soon have.
take care..
@marie_cehl (50)
• Philippines
27 Jan 09
No one can control their feelings for one person. If that would be the case, even if I love this guy maybe I should think twice. It also depends with his relationship with his ex-gf, If the girl wants him to get liable with their baby. Maybe I will just keep my feelings with me and love him from a far.
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@trinidadvelasco (11401)
• Philippines
27 Jan 09
i agree with you, marie_chel. to be getting into a relationship with a guy who already had a child with another woman, is tantamount to getting a stone to bang one's head by herself.
it will surely come to be a very messy relationship. it will be very difficult at so many angles. all the difficulties shall be brought forth by the fact that, there is a baby or a child which cannot be counted at all to be your own.
@StarBright (2798)
• United States
27 Jan 09
The question is not would you love him or not. The question is would you get involved with him anyway, knowing that he has unresolved responsibilities. Watch how he handles his responsibilitiy to that baby. Watch how he treats his ex. You could be that ex one day. You may want to love him from a distance.
@laglen (19759)
• United States
27 Jan 09
I would run away!
First of all, maybe they can work it out and give the child an intact home.
Second, even if they don't, he will have to be in her life for at least 18 years,if not, then there is something REALLY wrong with him
Run away!
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@trinidadvelasco (11401)
• Philippines
27 Jan 09
no. i will do everything within my power, rainzero, not to fall in love with a guy who has already a child coming forth with his ex girlfriend.
it will be very difficult because he will surely have a very divided attention already. the problem will even be more complicated if the mother gets to be very demanding for the father's support all the way from her pregnancy until the child gets to be of majority age or until the child gets to be able to support himself.
@trendyclothes (294)
• Philippines
2 Feb 09
i dont think i can love a guy with a package deal coming.. call me selfish.. but i dont want to share my lover.. of course he will be excited for the new baby coming.. and i dont want that.. i want him to be all mine.. whahahahaha
