Arguments

@samma00 (342)
Canada
January 26, 2009 10:00pm CST
My boyfriend and I have our occasional arguments. For awhile they were pretty bad. Where he would just yell at me and yell over top of me and not listen to what I had to say. We've worked things out and he doesn't yell anymore. He listened when I told him I don't like yelling and I'm not going to listen if it's yelling. I'd much rather talk things out. So now our arguments we talk through them. It's great and I feel it has brought us so much closer to eachother now. and We listen more to what the other has to say. Do you and you other half get in arguments like that? and how do you work them out?
3 responses
• United States
27 Jan 09
My partner and I really do not fight much any more. We have our moments when we're both frustrated and angry over something but we've never gotten into a screaming match over anything. We really do try to talk things out and sometimes it doesn't always work right but we do really try to make it so both of us get our points across and have the time to speak our minds on issues.
@samma00 (342)
• Canada
27 Jan 09
Thats good. I think those are always the healthiest kind of relationships. I find screaming at eachother never fixes anything and it just makes situations way worse than they already were.
@ladysakurax (1163)
• Canada
27 Jan 09
ah i do pretty much the same thing. He can be so stubborn sometimes. He does stuff which will be fruitless and he doesn't listen to me. There were also situations that are really serious and that I pushed him to stop. but, it's only when it is too late that people regret and learn from that mistake. So I just let go or I just ignore and keep my mouth shut until he can talk like a normal person.
@samma00 (342)
• Canada
27 Jan 09
Same here. My boyfriend is very stubborn too. And I think i have only yelled at him once in the past 9 months. But sometimes keeping your mouth shut is the best thing to do, and I tend to do that alot in arguments with my boyfriend hah.
@n30wing (4768)
• Philippines
27 Jan 09
Well if ever were both not calm down yet, we don't talk, it takes us hours to reconcile the issue, or the problems. We try to compromise, and not to discuss it again. Well I think their is no such thing as a perfect relationship, but you just try to work it out together. Anyway have a nice day to you!