another surgery for me!!

temphanic membrain or eardrum - for discussion
South Korea
January 28, 2009 1:55am CST
2004 when my son was 4 yrs.old he accidentally beat my ear..and the result my eardrum got damage.doctors have advised me that i have to go for a surgery to avoid loss of hearing..i was scared to do another surgery,few years ago i had my gallblader stone removed and i nearly died..so thinking of another surgery makes me scared..do you think i must go for surgery? plz share
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@checapricorn (16061)
• United States
28 Jan 09
[i]Hi marketing, If that is the best, go for it! We can rely on our technology this time and doctors are doing that almost everyday so they can be trusted! Prayer will work too! Take care![/i]
• South Korea
28 Jan 09
hi che, i know doctors can do.. but thoughts of OR really makes me scared as my last surgery was failed 3 times cuz my stiches was burst..my condition is still okay as i can work normally..but pain sometimes occurs..thanks have a nice day
@williamjisir (22819)
• China
28 Jan 09
Hello dear marketing friend. I am so sorry to know that you had this accident caused by your son. I think that the doctors are right to give their patients advice about any surgery. Whatever the result will be, I wish you to have everything back to normal and good condition with good luck to my dear friend. Take care.
• South Korea
28 Jan 09
hello..william, thanks for your concern,but my condition was still good only that i feel pain once the water goes to my ears..have a nice day
@karmendra (1123)
• India
28 Jan 09
hi,, dear friend.. you must go for the surgery.. don't bother about it.. there is nothing that is scary. remember one thing in your life which thing makes you scared.. you should fight with them.. don't worry god will help you.. keep your happiness..
@Crysi23 (515)
• United States
28 Jan 09
That one is a tough one my friend since I'm no doctor and in 2005 I had my gall bladder out because I had way too many gall stones for them to remove. If the doctor thinks its necessary than it must be. I would talk to the doctor about your concerns and your past experience with a surgery that you had. Maybe he could ease your mind and I would also talk it over with your significant other as well.
@ellie333 (21016)
28 Jan 09
Hi Marketing, I can understand your fears but you have a choice, risk losing your hearing or have the surgery and it is only a decision that you alone can make. Good luck though. Huggles. Ellie :D
• South Korea
28 Jan 09
yes ellie, i hope evrythings will be ok.thanks have a nice day