Are you comfortable or just happy?

United States
January 28, 2009 3:20pm CST
People tend to get comfortable when they are in a relationship for a long time. So I want to really know how many people are just comfortable and how many are really just happy in your relationship?
3 responses
@n30wing (4767)
• Philippines
29 Jan 09
Hi Queenperk! For me when you start a relationship you should feel being you to that person, being comfortable that you can feel free of what you are, even your bad traits or good traits , you can be comfortable accepting you for what you are, happiness will always be on the air. Learning each other to grow and nurture is happiness in the relationship that both of you work it out. Happiness and being comfortable goes hand in hand to make it worth while. I'm in a relationship and really seriously involve for 2 years now, each passing days we get to know each other more and comfotable and being happy with each other.
@rmuxagirl (7548)
• United States
28 Jan 09
I can honestly say I am completely happy in my relationship. I have been comfortable enough to be myself from the beginning and I don't have to hide anything about myself from him. I am really happy with my boyfriend and I cannot wait for that day when we can get married.
@tbmorris1 (158)
• United States
28 Jan 09
My husband and I have been together since 2001. We've been married for almost 3 years now! I think I am both comfortable AND happy. We make each other laugh and he listens or at least makes me think he's listening lol when I want to rant about something. When he holds me, I still get that butterflies in the stomach feeling!! It's weird that those feelings are still there because I've heard of the instances where it goes away and you have to work harder to keep things going! If that happens, then we are just going to have to adjust things because we are both in this relationship for the long haul!