What's more painful?

@akangirl (2436)
India
January 29, 2009 11:47am CST
When a person whom you trust, hurts you or a person whom you hurt, still trusts you?
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@anjel016 (329)
• Philippines
29 Jan 09
Of course in my part, being betrayed by the person whom I trust. How can you be hurt if someone whom you've hurt still trust you? You're the one who made the fault there. Most likely what you would feel there is guilt rather than getting hurt.
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@akangirl (2436)
• India
29 Jan 09
Guilt is also painful to bear.
@anjel016 (329)
• Philippines
30 Jan 09
Yes guilt is "HARD" to bear. But not painful.
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@akangirl (2436)
• India
30 Jan 09
Yeah you are right buddy guilt is not painful its hard to bear. Thanks for your response
@GemmaR (8517)
29 Jan 09
When a person who you trust hurts you, there's no doubt about that in my eyes :( I have had so many relationships where they have ended because of trust issues, and I don't think I could cope with any more ending that way again. I have to be able to trust people because of things that have happened in my past, and if that trust isn't there then I don't feel comfortable in being in a relationship with that person.
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@akangirl (2436)
• India
29 Jan 09
Yeah once a trust is broken then its hard to trust again
• India
29 Jan 09
i still trust a girl who has broken my trust alot of times, i dnt knw why but i believe she might change 1 day.
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@akangirl (2436)
• India
29 Jan 09
Maybe she would if you have been more supportive and could know her feeling without her needing to tell you. You still make same mistake. You need her to tell what she feels because you can never guess or never want to guess. Also the circumstances was different and again its the same problem. She had to do what she doesn't want to do.
@GAUCI123 (1042)
• Malta
29 Jan 09
I think when a person who bertays you is the worst thing that is really painful, I have been bertayed several times and now I will never trust anyone
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@akangirl (2436)
• India
29 Jan 09
Yeah its very painful
@vishwaskg (514)
• India
29 Jan 09
wonderful question,,,, could arouse a good debate ... but the obvious answer on part of anybody would be the first part of the answer because they know that they are right and they try to answer their ego , and also spend their most precious TRUST on the other person knowing that they are doing it for the right cause of it .... and when someone breaches that trust ... it just hurts their ego,,, whereas in the second part we would hurt someone knowing that ,the person needed to be hurt for some wrong that they would have done ,but later they knowing that they had done wrong will trust us... yes in this case also it pains ,,, but in a positive way....rather than what happens in the first part ,,,where the person is hurt in a negative way ...
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@akangirl (2436)
• India
29 Jan 09
Very good reply. Yes in both cases it hurts in different ways
@krupesh (2608)
• India
29 Jan 09
According to me if you still have the heart to feel that you have hurt the one who still truts you is more painful rather than being hurt by someone yourself.
@akangirl (2436)
• India
29 Jan 09
All the guilt comes and that becomes quite hard to bear
• India
29 Jan 09
U r rite if someone you trust and the person break ur trust then its very painful
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@akangirl (2436)
• India
29 Jan 09
But if you broke someones trust and still he/she forgives. wouldn't guilt be hard to bear?