Breaking Up With A Love One, How Do You Cope With It.

United States
January 30, 2009 9:49am CST
It has been six months and counting, since I ended my relationship with my girlfriend, and as of now everything is still fresh in my memory. I just couldn't let it go. I thought getting out of the three year rocky relationship was just a thing of the past. Yet, here I am staring out of nowhere waiting something might happen. I do not quite understand why I am so emotionally disturbed and sometimes unable to stand on my feet. Is this what you call true love or I am just being carried away too emotionally? I am a guy, supposedly tough, but when it comes to this feeling, I feel like giving up...what's going on with this type of phenomena... and here I am sharing my thoughts hoping to shed some light on it.
2 responses
@donsky14 (5947)
• Philippines
30 Jan 09
Well I think its just natural your feeling that way, she's been a part of your life for a long time. It'll be really hard to just move on. Just try to occupy yourself. Hang out with your friends more, cause if your alone...you'll remember her more. Good luck to you Botche
• United States
30 Jan 09
Times are tough when we end a long relationship with someone we spent so much time with. Now I have a question has your girlfriend moved onto someone else or is she still hurt over the breakup as well? I am not saying that you should go back but maybe you loved her more than you were thinking at the time. Or you might need more time to get over it, I have always heard it takes as long as you were together to get over it, maybe that statement is true for you as well. You spent many memories with this person and you may never get over her completely, you need to find some other things that you enjoy in life that way you can get your mind off of her. I hope that I helped you in someway Botche, happy mylotting and welcome to mylot, this is a great community and I am sure you will like being here. I hope for the best for you as well!