money problems

I know exactly what you mean. I have the same problem. I am writing from home and hoping to get more paying work soon, but it is hard when your partner is making most of the money. Is there anything you like? You can do a lot of things from home. Sell products. Search online for jobs you can do at home....? Maybe..you can babysit or walk dogs etc. Try Avon....It is whatever you think you can do from home. I wish you luck...I only have one boy, so having two children must be a full-time job.

Thats hard its not really fair to say he makes all the money, even if he does. We have our fair share of financial hardships since I am a stay at home mom, but my husband would never say I couldnt spend money because I dont make any. If it werent for me he couldnt go to work because he would have no clean laundry, if it werent for me he couldnt get to work because the car would break down, since I do the oil changes, if it werent for me he would get pulled over on his way to work, since I am the one who takes care of the car registration. Chew on that for a bit, and then tell him what you do to help support the family and keep him in a job!!

How about explaining to him about how you felt? and that it's cheaper for you to be at home rather than get a job? (as you will need to pay for baby sitter then). Or maybe you can earn some extra from myLot as well as some of the websites that myLot members have tried out and got paid? try typing 'earn money online' at the search button at top left hand corner and you will see past discussions about how you can earn more online. Good Luck!

tell him you DO have a job raising and caring for the kids, if he scoffed at that then leave the kids with him on his next day off and tell him you're going out to look for a job lol stay out about 10 hours and he should be fairly grateful when you return for the work you do with the kids :p

That's very mean of your husband to do. Well go and get a job and see how long it is before he complains about that. Or you can work full time on mylot and keep all the money you make to yourself. Good luck!

i hear you hun..my husband hasnt come out and said the same thing as yours but he has implied that he is the primary money maker therefore if he wants something its more important then what i want..or seems to be if i talk about something its blah blah blah..and if he decides he wants it its bought within a few days ya know? i cant go out and get a job because of back problems and i cant sit stand or walk more then 30 minutes at a time so i recently started trying find things on the net that i can do a couple hrs a day ....maybe you can find something you really like also...i know it would be hard with 2 small kids cause they in themselves are full time jobs !

Then stay at home...start working online...do mylot and kazook....u will definitely earn good income...all the best... here is a link... it is usefl... http://www.kazook.net/?r=1417

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I have been there before, with the hubby thing and we have 4 , so you may have to just show him the facts and figures so that he can see logicly that you staying at home is the best option right now , you can call the day care places in your area and get prices from them on how much per week etc for your kids and dont forget extra gas $$ for you to get to work and your lunches and work clothes .... lol I could go on but you see my point its an easy way to show men these things without making it into an argument , if you want to do somithing while your at home thats great , personally me i sell discount health cards and sell my crochet on the side if your intrested in the health card thing heres my link www.deliveringonthepromise.com/spangle I like this more than selling avon cause lord knows my friend who sells avon makes enough $$ off me LOL but i can sell the cards nationally so its not a local thing and its somithing ppl need raher than want and all that , but i like the tax deduction best , my laptop will be free in a few months when I claim it as a biz expense :D sorry for the ramblin hope I helped ya out in some way dont worry about the hubby most get cranky around this time with the holidays and such its alot of stress but somehow we dont kill them LOL ~M~

I don't have money problems...

This is exactly why I'm glad I'm not married :) But seriously, maybe an outside person needs to show him how it costs more for you to work and pay for daycare. Besides, isn't raising children more important than a little extra money? There are always ways to spend less.

I know how you feel. We have been having money problems also, but I dont get any crap from my husband. I just got a job and I'm working about 10 hours a week. It helps. His mother watches our Son while I'm working. Good luck, I hope things work out for you.

At one point i went through the same thing with my husband. Every time i wanted something when i wasn't working i was told to get a job... I had felt the same way. Ok get a part time job that will let you work the times that your husbamd is home. Not to say that you can't see your husband but it would help you two out with the money issues and not only that but it will give you a chance to get away from the kids if only for a couple of hours. I know i have 4 kids and i hate to leave them but i need to work in order for us to pay all of the bills. I have a very good babysitter who dosen't charge that much thank goodness. If you need to then if you have a department of social sivice around you then i would go and applie for child care help. they will help you pay for it. of course you will have what they call a parent fee but it's pretty cheep for the week.

First of all I think it is awful of your Husbandto say such a thing if you went to work the money would still not be yoursas you would have to pay someone to look after the little ones Try and find something on Line that could earn a bit of money with

you can earn money on the internet,such as e-bay,

sounds like ur inna rut. tell him that if he wants kids that he'll have to spend some of his hard-earned money on you (and the kids) that should shut him up for a while.

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i think it is okay for husbands and wives to help each other at expenses especially right now that expenses are really what keeps the head of the family working hard only to find out we have not saved any at all. if you think you needed to stay at home and take care of your children, at least try to earn at home, maybe like this one, buying or selling, a little add up to your finances can help your husband too. im sure your efforts will not go un noticed.

I have been a work @ home mom for 12 yrs and I totally can relate to wanting to help the family out financially. I had a full time job and 12 yrs ago my company downsized and did away with my job and I was very used to bringing home a paycheck. So I started working from home and I love it and wouldn't trade it for the world, it has been such a blessing and I have two great kids now who are almost grown and I think they are such good kids cause I was there for them. I am a distributor with Mia Bella Candles if you are interested you can check out my site www.earnwhileyouburn.com/jgannon