Does your spouse take advantage of you?

United States
January 31, 2009 8:04am CST
Have you found yourself taking advantage of your spouse? My husband seems to take advantage of my kindness. It seems to be quite frequent as of late to. It usually has to do with his kids and side of the family. I just had a heck of an example to state when I started this conversation, but having a problem wording and putting it down. That's just great. I try not to take advantage of my husband or take him for granted. I don't think I do, but have to pay more attention just to make sure. I have it happen to me and don't want to be like that and hopefully won't change to be like that. The more I think about it though, the more I do realize just how much my husband does take my kindness for granted when it comes to his ex-wife. Lastnight, I finally had enough of it and we got into it. This isn't the first time we've gotten into an argument about it, so I"m sure once again nothing is solved or going to change there. Otherwise, in my book, would of already happened by now.
1 response
@Renmnm (9)
• United States
6 Apr 09
Men sometimes they dont think only be run on command and have no self respect to stand order and stand up for self than to be used like a ragdoll.Men need to stand there ground when walked on too many times as Women need to do the same if its happening too. Hes my brother-in-law and I hope one day as the kind man he is to stand up for himself and take some charge for anyone taking advantage of his kindness and to be respected as he deserves if not give it right back when the person desrves it. NO matter what have to sometimes stand ground to right person not someone who isnt using ur kindness who respects you and who is a friend. Too anyone this is addressed too :) Sis nicely put hope u didnt mind me commenting you back:) Renee
• United States
6 Apr 09
Hi Sis! Glad you made it here to be a member. Yeah!! No, of course I don't mind you commenting on this. I've commented on one of your topics to already. I like what you said about standing up to the right person and not one who does respect his kindness and him as a person. You just never know about men or what their thinking is. They talk about woman like that right? :) Meanwhile, men are'nt really any different trying to figure out.