How do you feel about gate crashers?

I know a person before that brings lots of friends when she is invited to a party or some place else. It’s a habit of hers just to make get some fun. It’s not good for me though in the name of etiquette. It would be proper to ask first and be invited properly.

Actually I have done this before. It was a new years party so I really didn't see the big deal in it. I invited a couple to go with me and my date. Turns out it wasn't such a good idea. They weren't invited for a reason! I had no idea no one liked them. When we were always with a group no one seemed to show their dislike for them, they always talked with them and joked with them. But I guess it turned out they were being to faced. I heard nothing but rumors about them after that party, not so good rumors. Things that they said or something they did that no one liked or how they should have kept their mouth shut. I felt so bad for them! I also wondered what people were saying about me for bringing them there in the first place. I have never again done that! If I have a party it doesn't bother me if people bring other people, I look at it the more the merrier! I guess not every one can have opens arms like I do.

We used to crash weddings when I was a teen ager. If somebody crashed my party, as long as they don't cause trouble and we have enough refreshments, I wouldn't say anything.

Hi my friend, this is totally our headaches too when I was in our country. I just don't understand why people in there are not embarrass to take other people with them when they are invited? and also the uninvited, they have they have guts to come knowing that they are not on the list? I understand also the feelings of the host because that is our Filipino custom, to let the people eat even if it is against our will sometimes but we don;t want to be rude to embarrass anybody on the party because we will also the headline of the news.. ahahahah I know that. I think the best thing to do is to be FRANK to all the invited guests that the party is exclusive for the invited people only because the food is limited. am sure they will understand that or else they will be ashamed if their they will tag somebody and they won't be able to eat. hahahaha

no i just hate those people these are the people who just come into parties and are also uninvited these people will beg their other friends who are invitees to take them along with them these people just go to parties and mess up stuff they just make you feel embarassed and you feel that you will never come to such parties ever again.i once saw this incident i was attending a party once and there a gate crasher came he just got drunked and started getting touching with the birthday girl the girl's borther gotvery angry and he just threw him out of the party the girl was so embarrased she just broke into tears i hope this never happens to one of my hosted parites i just hope nad i wish this gate crashers stop doing this nonsense stuff

Well, for one when I have a party I get nice little cards. You can get them cheap at the $1.00 store. And, when you give them to someone you want to invite you word it so that you say YOU are invite to said party. And, then say RSVP and also let them know on the card that it is a private party or they may bring one friend or no kids or what ever. But, make it sound that it just for them because they are special. And, then if they don't RSVP then don't invite them in. Say I'm sorry I did not know you where coming you did not RSVP so, I did not set a place for you. Or, if they bring others just say I'm sorry you did not mention that you where bring said ppl I did not set a place for them or make enough food. But, no I would not let them in my house. I would be polite but firm. And, if they get mad to bad they are old enough to read the invite then they should know better... Next, time you invite them they will think twice! If they just don't except the invite that is their problem not yours! ** Peace and Love get's you through everything in Life **