What qualities are most important to you in a partner?

In no particular order: Honesty, intelligence, a sense of humor similar to my own (which means Monty Python, Mel Brooks, 80's comedies....), artistic talents (writer, artist, musician... whatever), a little touch of bad boy...

There are many different things that I look for in a partner. I look for personality, sense of humor, intelligence, uniqueness meaning is he like everyone else or does he march to the beat of his own drum. I like guys who are different.

Today....the ability to understand and appreciate one's seperate self while allowing other the autonomy of being themself. To allow the other to recover, recuperate in the way that is best for the individual without worry from the other or care.

my boyfriend or ex (don't know) has the qualities and defects that i somewhat look for sense of humor,he is very wise and inteligent (was a good teacher to me and still is-with some exceptions), has a desirable look that makes me wanna still his eyes and make my own,and that smile, oh that wonderfull smile, who wouldn't fall in love with him? and defects..? well lets just say that most of them are covered by his qualities i like that he is open-minded (something that i don't have the courage to be -or just not yet), but he sometimes he crosses this open-minded limits he is very active,even though sometimes i got upset for beeing like that but what i didn't like ,the games he plays/played were/are to much for me and tried to show him that but he just couldn't understand but all in all, he's my love with all his qualities and defects *i miss him :(

the most important is treat me nice... willing to spoil me as much as he can. apart from that if I can add good looking, with nice body, and rich ... am I asking for too much?