Mylot is getting Boring

@cupid74 (11388)
Pakistan
February 3, 2009 4:23am CST
Hi dear I just feel that mylot is getting boring and no new good discussions are coming. what u think about it and if u agree then do u think whats reasons/factors behind it also how to make it intresting Take care
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23 responses
@mayka123 (16583)
• India
3 Feb 09
Hi Cupid Nice to see your discussion after a very long time. Yes indeed mylot is getting boring because you are not so active here any more..Why dont you start some nice and spicy discussions and then this site will become a lot more interesting!
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@cupid74 (11388)
• Pakistan
3 Feb 09
Hi Mayka How are u dear yeah its discussion after long time, but i wonder where were u as u were not active too, u r not starting discussions as well. one of reason that its getting boring. well i started few discussions today, lets see what happened. whats going on with u, as i know u have all abilities to make it lively and intresting Take care
@mayka123 (16583)
• India
3 Feb 09
I am not too active here any more. Because there has not been anything interesting to keep me around here. And since you are not much around here to reply to my discussions I have not started any. And the replies to discussions are also not too interesting nowadays.
@cupid74 (11388)
• Pakistan
3 Feb 09
Wow Flaterreeddddddd yaar u just start few and see how I and other ur friends respond to it why u say that We all like u Take care
@arlerambabu (1079)
• India
3 Feb 09
Instead of lamenting that My lot is becoming boring and drab, i feel some body should take the lead to make it lively. Let that "Some body" ' be you
@cupid74 (11388)
• Pakistan
4 Feb 09
Hi babu jee Thanks for response and what a way to motivate me and sure u r right some one has to take the initiative and it can be any one Once again thanks for u Sir Bye
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@jess368 (3368)
• United States
3 Feb 09
I think your observation has some merit. I do believe many people have slowed down on caring about posting good discussions. They have seemed to dwindle down to mindless answer posts. I keep trying to post discussions that are interesting, or at the very least need answering, but it seems as if the current users dont care to answer posts that need "real" answers.
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@cupid74 (11388)
• Pakistan
4 Feb 09
Hi Jess thanks for response and sure thanks for agreeing "somewhat" with my observation u know i believe that this forum must be used to get some positive and good feedback other than entertaining and other stuff, but sure without hurting others really appreciate ur efforts and hope others will think about it tooo Take care
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@apsara60 (6610)
• Israel
3 Feb 09
hi cupid dear, here I really agree with you. I will not say that interesting discussions are not available, but it is just that we are getting bored. I think it is obvious, it is human nature to get bored from same to same monotonous activity.May be we should take a break and find some other more interesting activity, but I wonder WHAT? To me nothing seems to be interesting now a days.......may be your guru and my friend Rose will have some suggestions....lol
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@apsara60 (6610)
• Israel
3 Feb 09
hi cupid, you sound so formal as if you saw me after ages..lol, may be it is the same problem again you see only Rose everywhere........anyway, lets wait for Rose.......
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@cupid74 (11388)
• Pakistan
3 Feb 09
Hi Apsara shukriya ke aap tashreef laai kia baat hea aap ki i meant we cant get bored with job as we have to do it, so how can we bore if freinds are around but if u dont meet with friends u get bored. Ok Lets wait for Rose sas what she has to Say Till then Take caere
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@cupid74 (11388)
• Pakistan
3 Feb 09
Hi Aps ham mile kab hea i think 2009 is busy yrs for every one and every body is missing and i told u, that u and r-----"" Any way lets Rose Come
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@Sreekala (34312)
• India
3 Feb 09
Hi Cupid, You are getting bored? I am sorry to hear about the same. Take a break and come back after some time then your mind will refreshed and mylot will be interesting. I can't agree you on this statement. May be I don't have enough time to spend with mylot and this is one of the possible reason for my interest in mylot. In office I am eagerly waiting for a break so that I can spend time with mylot (lol).
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@cupid74 (11388)
• Pakistan
4 Feb 09
I am confused Sreeee as what about those who dont want me here???? And pls advise what u derive as how to make it intresting
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@cupid74 (11388)
• Pakistan
3 Feb 09
Hi Sreekala Got the Message Ok i am taking off from mylot and Going Happy Bye
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@Sreekala (34312)
• India
3 Feb 09
I think now you are interested in mylot. All of your dear friends are coming and showing their concern. Now you can't take off Cupid, you have to respond (lol) and I think now you understand the best way of making mylot interesting.
@Roseo8 (2947)
• India
4 Feb 09
Hi Cupid......well I think your boredom has enlightened you and opened your eyes...the best way to get over boredom in mylot seems to be to start some good discussions and to have all your nice friends dropping in and passing on their comments........ha..ha... I hope mylotting does not make you work overtime and tire you out...........Good luck Zass...keep up the good work..................
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@cupid74 (11388)
• Pakistan
4 Feb 09
Ho Rose My Dear Ustad Jeee Welcome u in Kingdom of Boredom to be honest, it was not boredom that opened my eyes but it was some thing else, a SECRET not to REVEAL, OK And why would i feel tired when i have friends Like U Take care
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@Sreekala (34312)
• India
4 Feb 09
Rose, Cupid was waiting for you .. why you came late? He trusts only you what to do.. he wanted a solution for his problem... sigh... finally you landed up.
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@Roseo8 (2947)
• India
4 Feb 09
Hi Sree...what to do..I had a power failure since morning...Only now they seems to have fixed it.........Any way cupid seems to be happy with all of you to keep him company..I dont think he missed me.....
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@Darkwing (21583)
7 Feb 09
I think it gets boring in here from time to time, but then suddenly it perks up again. I've been away for a while building my website but I think that a few people have gone from here for one, and others take a little time out at the end of the month once they're satisfied they've reached payout. It can get a bit repetitive in here from time to time, I guess, but there's usually the odd few either interesting, or amusing discussions to be found. Stick with it, my friend! Brightest Blessings.
@Darkwing (21583)
7 Feb 09
Yes, that's right. Just keep looking in until you find something that interests you. You can normal either find one in top discussions or discussions about your interests, but if now, one could pop up any time in new discussions... you just never know!
@cupid74 (11388)
• Pakistan
7 Feb 09
Yeah u r very right thanks for the tips, u r really a nice friend Take care
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@cupid74 (11388)
• Pakistan
7 Feb 09
Hi Darkwing thanks for the response and u r very right, u never know when it perk up again and some nice discussion get started, so keeping intouch is key to find it Take care
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@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
3 Feb 09
I think something serious has happened...............LOL! because two of your other friends also told me the same thing that mylot is getting bore. How can it be..........I fail to understand..........when members like you are there to 'recharge' mylot...........how can it be boring........There is no dearth of interesting discussios...........only thing is we need to search for those........!! Please check some of my latest discussions, hope it may allow you to get rid of your boredom.
@cupid74 (11388)
• Pakistan
3 Feb 09
Hi Deepak Thanks for ur response well sure ur discussions are good and intresting and i am sure i never miss any of it U r right, search for new discussion is imprtant and trust me i am bad in it, thats my problem by the way who were other 2 who told u that its getting boering? Take care
@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
3 Feb 09
In such case.......it becomes responsibility of all of us to make this site interesting with our witty comments and responses.
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@cupid74 (11388)
• Pakistan
3 Feb 09
u r right and asusual i Agreee with u that was wake up call for u and others in GROUP Wake up Dears
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@checapricorn (16061)
• United States
3 Feb 09
[i]Hi cupid, This time I am not bored since I got tons of emails or notifications...I am working on it each day! Unlike for the past 2 months during my absence here, I find it very boring maybe just my routine, you know! Or maybe most of your friends are not here, winter sometimes makes people feel grumpy like me! LOL! Enjoy![/i]
• United States
4 Feb 09
[i]No, do now be absent here...hehehe..A lot of our friends already are not around! Maybe if you have no notification for the day, just post a lot of topic! How about that? I will try to respond to all of that! hehehhehe! Enjoy![/i]
@cupid74 (11388)
• Pakistan
6 Feb 09
Well Checa thats not bad option but what about if u stsart few and i respond to them????? think about it
@cupid74 (11388)
• Pakistan
4 Feb 09
Hi Checa thanks for ur response u mean i have to wait for 2 months to get TONS of emails and notifications??? but u know the more fun is to respond ro current disccusion and get others engaged in it And u may be right about absence of friends as well as effect of COLD weather on mood, LOL Take care
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@maddysmommy (16230)
• United States
3 Feb 09
Awww I hope my discussions aren't too boring for you LOL I've only recently returned to mylot and find many discussions, some not all that interesting but I still reply to them if they are on my friends list. Maybe you need a break or start some of your own like - What's something interesting happening in your life right now? or Did you hear a funny story, tell us about it, or what's happening in the news in your town or something like that. I'll answer it LOL
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@cupid74 (11388)
• Pakistan
4 Feb 09
Ho Dear R Hope u must be doing well thanks for the response Well, sure ur discussion are not boring and i love to reply them. Well i myself try to respond all friends discussion, unless i know nothing about it. and to share news of town, i am sure others dont have intrest in that as culture, socity, environments are totally differnt to have intresting discussion, all friends must be on same page. Anyway lets see what transpire Take care
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@mysdianait (66009)
• Italy
3 Feb 09
Boring? When?? I can't keep up with all the discussions and responses that I would like to respond to! I started one yesterday which I don't do often and if I stop responding to other discussions to comment on the responses on my own I get behind again. I guess we all like different things and not every discussion has something interesting for everyone but I am certainly not finding it boring at all and I think I never have done ever since I joined almost two years ago. Are you looking in the right places?
@cupid74 (11388)
• Pakistan
3 Feb 09
Hi dear thanks for ur response and u r right few months ago i was in same position as u r. i was hardly having time to cope all the messages i were getting at my hotmail. but since last couple of months, things are changing. and i am with same group of friends and trust me they are Marvellous Take care
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@mysdianait (66009)
• Italy
3 Feb 09
It goes without saying that what is 'right' for me might not be so for another but I go to 'no responses' when I find nothing in my notifiers or when the rest of the myLot world appears to be asleep. Earlier I also landed on the 'new user' discussions and what I found there was everything but boring - quite unnerving really! Some may find it everyday stuff but it certainly isn't part of my day
@mayka123 (16583)
• India
3 Feb 09
Can you tell me which are the right places???? Mylot is boring now....
@ellie333 (21016)
3 Feb 09
Hi Cupid, I really haven't noticed, I am only here about half an hour a day lately if that so only answer discussions that appear when I am on as so busy doing other stuff right now. I find ones that are interesting though, perhaps sift through discussions from your interests and top discussions rather than just friends list and also some new users as they always bring in great discussions but don't always get the coverage they deserve. Huggles. Ellie :D
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@cupid74 (11388)
• Pakistan
3 Feb 09
Hi Ellie thanks for ur response yeah u r right that if we explore newcomes it would be fun as they bring nice and fresh ideas, i will look into it Thanks Take care
• Australia
3 Feb 09
Hm.. it has compared to when i first joined the site. I think the reason could be that people want many responses to their discussions so they try to make it as simple and universal as possible. Then it becomes a very common topic and uninteresting to reply to. I notice that i'm also trying to find topics that are easier to respond to as i see more of those kinds of discussions.. so i guess mylot is kind of stuck in a rut.
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@cupid74 (11388)
• Pakistan
4 Feb 09
Hi Anti thanks for ur response and i really appreciate ur observation as its one of Major factor. Mostly discussions are getting Same, not much differnce. and u r right, serious discussions get less Response as get to easy and general Discussion Take care and keep in touch bye
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@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
4 Feb 09
Hi cupid! I hate you are getting bored. I try and spice things up around here as much as possible.lol..I am kinda new though so mylot is still exciting for me.Maybe if you start a fun and crazy discussion you will get your pleasure back. I hope so..I don't want you to stop coming around.
@cupid74 (11388)
• Pakistan
6 Feb 09
Thanks Jen, I appreciate that
@cupid74 (11388)
• Pakistan
4 Feb 09
Hi Jen Wow thanks for such a lovely response. well i really appreciate ur efforts and hope u will be more active as well as other friends. And i do agree that if u start discussion u get the plweasure back, but i am one who love to respond more rather that initiate Take care and hey, u will find me around u
@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
4 Feb 09
Good..I wouldn't want you going anywhere.
@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
3 Feb 09
Most definitely! I find little interest to come here and the pretty face of the page has been changed enormously. I am not amused anymore except for a few people like you who still are fun to talk with.
@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
3 Feb 09
Am glad that you think so deepak! But I can understand about Cupid but why ME!!
@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
3 Feb 09
Yes, I fully agree with you and I must say that without members like Cupid and YOU, mylot will become less interesting!!!
@cupid74 (11388)
• Pakistan
3 Feb 09
Hi Mimpi thanks for ur rsponse and really appreciate that u think THAt about me, but trust me its nott only one person but its good company/gathering of friends to make it happened. U, deepak, Rose, Apsara, Sree, Mayka all are wonderful Take care
@makingpots (11915)
• United States
6 Feb 09
I say, where you see a problem seek to fix it. You are doing just that, dear cupid. Three discussions lately.... aren't you industrious? Lol Don't get bored! Just go stir up action on your friends discussions and cause a laugh or two.
@cupid74 (11388)
• Pakistan
6 Feb 09
Right Ma'am
@vicki2876 (5636)
• Canada
4 Feb 09
I always find that around the beginning of the month that there are a lot less discussions and my interest has wavered a bit. I think it has to do with cashouts. Everyone is rushing to make discussions and respond near the end of the month and then when turn over happens they have burnt out all their creative juices. Once payouts happen in the middle of the month, people will be revived again and ready to make more posts and discussions. I could be wrong, but that is just an idea.
@cupid74 (11388)
• Pakistan
4 Feb 09
Hi Vicki thanks for ur response well trust me that people who are here to make money, their discussions and replies are most of time not worth to respond. as their only aim is to earn money. i am looking for and missing friend and people who are here for fun and have nice time. Ur observation might be right, but persons who are crazy about money, are not in my list Anyway take care and enjoy Byee
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7 Feb 09
Hi cupid...I'm a newbie here and to me Mylot is such an exciting place. I was just saying to my son just five minutes ago that if mylot was a physical place I'd move in permanently. My son who is 19 and also joined a few days ago also loves it here. I suppose it helps if you are a newbie like us because we have a fresh perspective on the place...I wonder how we will feel after having made as many posts as you?...still excited I hope.
@cupid74 (11388)
• Pakistan
7 Feb 09
Hi Imagine thanks for ur response and welcome u at Mylot. sure its excitibng sites and if u find good friends then its great SOCIAL site( thats what i call it). And u said very well that u want to Move in if it exist, LOL Well sure with passage od time u will have comparison urself Take care and Enjoy
@ptrikha_2 (45527)
• India
3 Feb 09
Somehow I too am feeling the same . I think many people are either not active in it now a days or they are just responding to others' discussions and not starting interesting enough discussions . I think new discussions on Off-beat topics might be needed to generate more interest and excitement in Mylot .
@ptrikha_2 (45527)
• India
3 Feb 09
Well; I have thought of starting a New "Spicy" discussion - please do check this out .
@kant11 (12)
• China
9 Feb 09
There are 2 reasons why I come here,one is to improve my english ,the other is to make friends.
@cupid74 (11388)
• Pakistan
9 Feb 09
Hi dear welcome u on mylot and sure it will help u get good friends and improve ur english take care