is there someone who meant a lot to you and at one point, isn't around anymore?

Malaysia
February 4, 2009 9:57am CST
well, i had this close girlfriend before and she was practically always there for me in bad and good times. now, i kind of losing her. it started all out when she left me with all her problems and let me do all her dirty jobs for her. like paying her debts, the house rent that is. i'm not sure do i still have to contact her like we always do before . i'm not sure what i'm suppose to do now. but i do love our friendship. to cut the story short, i'm waiting for her to apologize and pay me back. any suggestion guys? have you ever experienced this before?
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4 responses
@winterose (39918)
• Canada
4 Feb 09
well I am not a guy, but yes there have been many people I cared deeply about and they are not around anymore, and some of those people were just users, they got what they wanted and they left. It is all a learning experience, I am not fooled by those people in my real life anymore but I do get hurt when I get pretty close to an online friend, and they are no longer around anymore.
• Malaysia
5 Feb 09
i believe that there is always a reason to anything that happens in life. i should be more aware and careful next time.
@ANTIQUELADY (36488)
• United States
4 Feb 09
don't want to sound mean but u are better off w/out her. she was just using you. i know how bad that hurts to careabout someone like that. don't hold your breath waiting for that apology. i'm sorry.
• Malaysia
5 Feb 09
at one point, i thought about giving up too. i hope i'll meet someone new next time. thanx for your concern antiquelady.
@marketing07 (6266)
• South Korea
4 Feb 09
i think your friend really needs someone to talk too..a friend to lean on..why dont you try to contact her..and let bygones be by gone..have a nice day
• Malaysia
4 Feb 09
i did and i tried to forget the past not that i didn't think about that. but i'm still afraid that she would borrow cash and don't pay me back. that's her only problem.
• United States
4 Feb 09
When I was younger, I had a VERY close friend in school. She lived up the road from me and we spent just about every waking hour together. When we got into high school, she started modeling and hanging around with the "cool" kids. I wasn't "cool enough" to be her friend anymore, so she just stopped talking to me all-together. I was so hurt. Her friendship was an important part of my life, and I miss it a lot.
• Malaysia
4 Feb 09
i understand that. my girlfriend was important to me too. i was never afraid to spill just about anything to her and now she's gone. and it's just not that simple and easy to be close to someone or find someone exactly the kind we are comfortable with, again..