my chich just left me

Israel
February 6, 2009 4:29am CST
i need your candid help,because i am dying.my girlfriend just left me for my best friend.what do i do?should i fall out withh my best friend?above all, why should people be this wicked?
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4 responses
@aisaellis22 (6449)
• United States
6 Feb 09
Hello darlington22! I am sorry to hear your story. I know how hurt it is to you especially the person involve is your girlfriend and your best friend. Two of the most important person to you betrayed you. Maybe all you have to do now, is move on and find a girl who really loves you. You can't move on unless you can't find a person that will replace your girlfriend. That's for sure.
• Israel
6 Feb 09
thanx 4 sympathising with me .right now im so scared of making new friends, how do i go about that,cus i now find it hard to trust peeople
• United States
6 Feb 09
I understand what you felt for now. I know it's hard but I hope one day you have to ready yourself and start to trust people again. Everything is a risk here and if you don't want to risk, you won't progress.
• United States
6 Feb 09
thank you for the best response darlington..I am glad you like my advise to you.
• India
6 Feb 09
ya a friend is a one who is going to be in all ur path and girl friend does what there parents do say so it gerat to be with ur friend and be happy mylotting
@zenki08 (700)
• Philippines
6 Feb 09
Well this is a hard situation to be in. I know it would be hard for you to accept things, But eventually you must accept this. My advise to you is for you take your time. If you need to be alone and to not be anywhere near your bestfriend and your ex then do so. But you need some outlet so that you won't be always thinking about this thing that happened to you. About your relationship with your friend, only you can decide what will become of your friendship. But if I were in your shoes my trust towards my friend will be surely be affected. But I won't blame him totally because their are 3 people involved including you.
@srganesh (6349)
• India
6 Feb 09
Hey!If you had any intentions of loving her and to marry her,then you should have disclosed it to both of them.It is no good to blame them now.She might have considered yourself as just another friend and your friend should have impressed her more.Life is like that.Don't think people wicked for such things.At least they had the courage to open their minds.Cheer up!