would you prefer long term or short term dating relationship? before u say i do?

United States
February 9, 2009 5:24pm CST
i was in long and short term relationship before, but in my opinion i think long term relationship is best, in that way you can get to know each other more better and deeper before you say i do.
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@raynejasper (2322)
• Philippines
9 Feb 09
..I think I don't prefer any of the two since for me, either you are into a long term or short term relationship, there is always a possibility that you will be apart.. I had known a friend who have in a relationship for almost 7 years but their relationship ended in nothing.. they broke apart.. At first, I thought being into this kind of relationship would make the partners be closer together however, I was wrong.. there are those also who were in a short term relationship and ended in good marriage life.. I think it doesn't really matter whether you are in a short term or lone term relationship before you say I do because it is in the couple to preserve their love and family together....
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@modstar (9605)
• Philippines
13 Feb 09
Short term dating. I think the getting to know part should continue even if i already have a girlfriend. I mean it shouldn't stop there. Dating is a continuous process and the introduction part is the only think essential in dating at first few dates. Oh wait, do you mean marriage? Well i guess it really takes a long term dating relationship. Get to know more about the person in a sense that you think you know him well enough. Like his habits, his behavior, anything! His family and friends. Marriage is a complex thing so unless you're really prepared, then don't jump into marriage yet because it's not as easy as it seems.