plan for a date this valentine?

@becnh83 (806)
Philippines
February 10, 2009 5:17am CST
guys do you already have a plan where will you go this valentines day? me i just want to have a dinner with my bf thats...if he will ask.... how about you where will you go....
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@mentalward (14695)
• United States
10 Feb 09
I will either spend Valentine's Day here in myLot or I'll simply be relaxing as I have a Social Security disability hearing coming up the day before Valentine's Day and I'll probably be very exhausted from the stress and anxiety this is causing me. My husband is a true NON-romantic. He doesn't like celebrating any kind of holiday, which I find so sad, especially because I LOVE celebrating for any reason whatsoever! We went out to lunch two years ago at a Denny's restaurant (how's that for romance? NOT!) and did nothing last year. I'm not even going to buy him a card this year. It hurts when the efforts one makes are not reciprocated. One year, about 3 years ago, I bought a bunch of romantic candles and made my husband his favorite meal for dinner. I put on one of his favorite DVD movies. It was so nice... for HIM. I received nothing. So, I'll be doing a lot of myLotting that day or just spend it vegetating in front of the TV. I've had so much to do, and have a lot still left to do, before Friday since I'm going to this hearing without a lawyer. I probably won't want to do anything even if a miracle happened and my husband suddenly became romantic! I would LOVE to go to a nice steakhouse for dinner, but I strongly doubt that will happen. Valentine's day for me has become like any other day. Sad, huh?
@mentalward (14695)
• United States
10 Feb 09
Oops, I just remembered that the Denny's restaurant lunch took place on our anniversary, not on Valentine's Day. Nope, can't remember ever going out with my husband on Valentine's Day.
@becnh83 (806)
• Philippines
11 Feb 09
really? ohhh thats really sad but dont you have any children or friends? valentines is not just fof husband and wife or any lovers either, this is for all of us who felt love...dont tell me you dont even feel love anymore even to your parents, or siblings?hhhmmmm...i dont think so....hehehehehe.. i know you are a very lovable person...happy valentines friend... happy posting
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@mentalward (14695)
• United States
11 Feb 09
You're so very right! My parents and only sibling are deceased, but I do have my two children... grown children, but children just the same. If my husband decides he doesn't want to do anything special, I'll take my boys out to dinner. Thanks so much for reminding me!!!
@riyasam (16578)
• India
10 Feb 09
actually,i donot have much plans for the valentines.this day is not celebrated with much pomp in our country and my hubby is not at all romantic.i just hope,we will spend some time alone with me.
@becnh83 (806)
• Philippines
11 Feb 09
ohhh...that is so sad but anyway do you have children? celebrate it with them and promise your husban will join you too...hehehehe happy posting
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@riyasam (16578)
• India
11 Feb 09
yup,i do have two kids aged 6 and 2.your idea is a good one.
@ds6413 (2073)
• United States
10 Feb 09
Hello, we may probably go do something. As for what I don't know yet. My b/f is a great cook. Everyone in my family loves his cooking
@becnh83 (806)
• Philippines
11 Feb 09
wow...thats so nice so you mean to say your bf already studied the recipes for this valentine?ohhhhh how romantic it is...
@Humbug25 (12551)
10 Feb 09
Hi ya becnh83 I have no plans at all for February 14th, I have no significant other to buy a gift for or to be invited out by so it will be a nice evening in the warm curled up on the settee in front of the tv!
@becnh83 (806)
• Philippines
11 Feb 09
hahahaha...well celebrate it with your family anyways valentines day is not just for lovers...most important is that your family...agree with that?hehehehehe Happy posting
@messageme (2821)
• United States
10 Feb 09
I probably won't be doing anything special for valentines day. Last year we didn't do anything either. With 6 kids we can't ever find a sitter so we hardly ever get to go out. Usually the weekends we don't have all the kids it is easier to find someone to watch them but this isn't the weekend. Hopfully we can find something nice to do though.
@becnh83 (806)
• Philippines
11 Feb 09
noh dont say that you dont have time...even at home we can still celebrate it together with your family thats the most important... happy posting
• India
10 Feb 09
No plan for this valentines day because i didn't have any girl friend upto now...... i am waiting for it only ........it may happen in this valentines day i wil happy
@becnh83 (806)
• Philippines
11 Feb 09
noooo.... valentines day is not only for the people who has gf or bf this is for all of us,especially your parents, siblings and friends great them....you dont have to be lonely because you dont have a gf to celebrate with....celebrate your valentines day together with your family, that is the most important... happy posting
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@iamsolucky (1243)
• Philippines
10 Feb 09
a chat with my boyfriend, since he is in australia and im here in phili, that would be nice and we already doing it 4 years in a row. We will celebrate valentine day when we meet this year and yes that will be a great moment for us (even though its late valentine celebration in april or may 2009) . Hahahaha i will be happy .I think we all need to celebrate valentine day everyday. Love doesnt need exact day to celebrate. its not february 14, but its everyday and lets all think of that. Lets remind our parents how we are blessed to have them too in this life. Happy mylotting!!!
@becnh83 (806)
• Philippines
11 Feb 09
yes thats correct....valentines is not just for lovers this is for all people who felt love...i know everybody feels the same way we all feel this kind of emotions...so happy valentines... happy mylottinng
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@KUSHANK55 (2437)
• India
10 Feb 09
hi dear becnh83, i am 54 and my wife is not in the best of her health to join in any celebrations of any kind!! well all the best for all the fun you are looking for!!
@becnh83 (806)
• Philippines
11 Feb 09
oh... sorry hear that your wife is sick but anyway we can celebrate the valentines anywhere even if we are at home we can still celebrate it...infact everyday is a valentines day...right? happy posting...
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@tudors (1556)
• China
10 Feb 09
I don't have a plan and I'm not going to have a plan. This year, all that makes me contented is to go home right away after work cause I need good rest and a lot of fun are waiting for me at home. And as to shopping, I would rather find another day cause I hate to shop in a crowded store. Shopping is part of pleasure, so I don't want my enjoyment be spoilt. Believe it or not, I won't feel any regret or uneasy of my plan for 14th.
@becnh83 (806)
• Philippines
11 Feb 09
yes i believe that there are really people doesnt want to go on crowded places...and maybe you will celebrate valentine at home..thats more exciting.. happy posting
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