plan for a date this valentine?

I will either spend Valentine's Day here in myLot or I'll simply be relaxing as I have a Social Security disability hearing coming up the day before Valentine's Day and I'll probably be very exhausted from the stress and anxiety this is causing me. My husband is a true NON-romantic. He doesn't like celebrating any kind of holiday, which I find so sad, especially because I LOVE celebrating for any reason whatsoever! We went out to lunch two years ago at a Denny's restaurant (how's that for romance? NOT!) and did nothing last year. I'm not even going to buy him a card this year. It hurts when the efforts one makes are not reciprocated. One year, about 3 years ago, I bought a bunch of romantic candles and made my husband his favorite meal for dinner. I put on one of his favorite DVD movies. It was so nice... for HIM. I received nothing. So, I'll be doing a lot of myLotting that day or just spend it vegetating in front of the TV. I've had so much to do, and have a lot still left to do, before Friday since I'm going to this hearing without a lawyer. I probably won't want to do anything even if a miracle happened and my husband suddenly became romantic! I would LOVE to go to a nice steakhouse for dinner, but I strongly doubt that will happen. Valentine's day for me has become like any other day. Sad, huh?

actually,i donot have much plans for the valentines.this day is not celebrated with much pomp in our country and my hubby is not at all romantic.i just hope,we will spend some time alone with me.

No plan for this valentines day because i didn't have any girl friend upto now...... i am waiting for it only ........it may happen in this valentines day i wil happy

Hi ya becnh83 I have no plans at all for February 14th, I have no significant other to buy a gift for or to be invited out by so it will be a nice evening in the warm curled up on the settee in front of the tv!

I probably won't be doing anything special for valentines day. Last year we didn't do anything either. With 6 kids we can't ever find a sitter so we hardly ever get to go out. Usually the weekends we don't have all the kids it is easier to find someone to watch them but this isn't the weekend. Hopfully we can find something nice to do though.

Hello, we may probably go do something. As for what I don't know yet. My b/f is a great cook. Everyone in my family loves his cooking

hi dear becnh83, i am 54 and my wife is not in the best of her health to join in any celebrations of any kind!! well all the best for all the fun you are looking for!!

a chat with my boyfriend, since he is in australia and im here in phili, that would be nice and we already doing it 4 years in a row. We will celebrate valentine day when we meet this year and yes that will be a great moment for us (even though its late valentine celebration in april or may 2009) . Hahahaha i will be happy .I think we all need to celebrate valentine day everyday. Love doesnt need exact day to celebrate. its not february 14, but its everyday and lets all think of that. Lets remind our parents how we are blessed to have them too in this life. Happy mylotting!!!

I don't have a plan and I'm not going to have a plan. This year, all that makes me contented is to go home right away after work cause I need good rest and a lot of fun are waiting for me at home. And as to shopping, I would rather find another day cause I hate to shop in a crowded store. Shopping is part of pleasure, so I don't want my enjoyment be spoilt. Believe it or not, I won't feel any regret or uneasy of my plan for 14th.