Can you judge people

India
February 10, 2009 5:51pm CST
my friend was taken for a ride,a real big one at that, she just trusted that person so much and he just took advantage of her and after a while without any explanation just dumped her, and how does one deal with such situations in life, do you just go on and be wiser or try to get back at him, i feel its better to be careful next time take it as a lesson learned rather than retaliating
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@Bebs08 (10681)
• United States
11 Feb 09
People often judge another person in many ways, but is is wrong to judge other people. There are times that our judgment is wrong. Try to know the person first before you make a judgment of what kind of person he is. Sometimes we tend to look at the outside appearance and then we pronounce our judgment without learning what is the inside quality of that person. Remember!! God looks at the heart, meaning the inside qualities, He is not particular of the outside part. It is not good to judge for we also are not perfect. We have our own weakness too.. that maybe other people judge us the way we are and it is hurting when we hear their judgment against us. Often times people have wrong judgment against another.
@ryuvinta (153)
• Indonesia
11 Feb 09
as a people, we sometimes realy like to judge a people without realizing that we could made the same mistake. and i admit it, that i sometimes just judging people without know exactly what they are doing. i am judging people maybe because of infotainment at television etc
• Canada
10 Feb 09
I am a natural witch meaning gifted with abilities. I tend to know right off the bat if a person is a liar and things like that. so I tend to be avery good judge of character rarely am I wrong. but I dont tell people about my abilities, scares them. but simple answer to your question, yes im a good judge of character of people.