Some advince to the parents
By Youjia1227
@Youjia1227 (25)
China
February 11, 2009 12:33am CST
There are some parents who can't stop blaming their children of the right age for not getting married.Every time when sitting down together,they will say someting like that you are're now XX age ,it's so old enough to get married, when we were this age you had been born and so on.
Some time my parents will do the same thing to me too.And one time I can't bore to throw a rhetorical question to them why not find a man who you are both satisfied with to marry me?They just keep silent for a moment and said guiltily that as parent we are worried to find the wrong one for you and can't give you happiness.
Yes,that's just the point.We also want to tell you marriage is once in our lifetime,we are also worried about the same as you.So don't keep blaming us any more,It's no use but to make inharmonious between us.
1 response
@raynejasper (2322)
• Philippines
11 Feb 09
..parents are most of the time very protective of their children.. this hindrances us to make our own decisions most especially when it comes to our love life.. getting married is not easy as eating that if you don't like the food, we can through it out.. We are suppose to be the one to decide when to get married and whom to marry.. There are so many things to consider before getting married.. and we have to prepare ourselves for great adjustment because we are already used to being single then all of a sudden, we will have somebody to look into and a responsibility to do.. We have to prepare our mind, emotions and our hearts to all the possible adjustment that we are going to make by the time we get marry.. maturity counts a lot here.. It snot because our parents wants us to get marry that we do it.. It is us who is going to make the decision because after all, we are the one concern and not them actually.
