im i really a friend??

@Tall89 (10)
Kenya
February 11, 2009 3:41am CST
Last night my 4 friends and i went for a drink together with their girlfriends{yeah,yeah i was alone so what?}we were having a good time and apparently my friends got drank.One of my friends chic doesn't drink and was kinda bored cause she was left out in our conversations.I went and talk to her for hours.she evoked feelings that i hadnt felt since my breakup,i mean we had everything in common. I did the unthinkable and kissed her and to my surprise she kissed back.Since that kiss i havent talked to my friend or her.I cant tell my friend cause we've been boys since forever and his chic want to start a relationship with me and break her engagements with him.i really like her and he's my friend.Help!!!!
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4 responses
@willofGod (113)
• Nigeria
11 Feb 09
yOU'LL NEED do onto others what you want them to do to u. Altho it happens like that sometime yet you need to consider the effect of this on your friend.That is betrayer for the most trusted friends. Give things time to settle.Try not to rush into things like that. How much u love her doesn't matter now like the friendship. Personally i'll say that is infatuation and it leads to nothing but distruction and pain. Your friend will not fold his arm and do nothin if you try that. AND YOU CAN'T UNDERESTEEMATE WHAT A CLOSE FRIEND CAN DO IN REVENGE. U had better weigh it very well. Is it worth it?Which one out weigh the other between The problem u'll face after doing such act and what you'll enjoy in doing it. What if the lady now leaves on the long run? What if it does not work out? What if your friend harms you? Or do u think that is immposible? THINK TWICE THE BALL IS IN YOUR COURT
• India
11 Feb 09
this situation of urs claearly indicates the effect of the drink on tthe human body. . once v r in the drunken stage we dont bother about any thing ,because at that time v ar in unconscious ness, ,any u both forget abt the things that r happend priviously . . annd now on wards u shuld be carefull while drinking
@srganesh (6348)
• India
11 Feb 09
What to say about you and the girl?I regret to say,you both didn't respect the relationship.Just with one talk over,she is ready to leave your friend and you are also ready to leave him.I really pity that friend.To be honest,you two are not fit to be trusted people.Again I am sorry,if I had hurt you.I speak out of my mind.Pardon me!
@SomeCowgirl (32266)
• United States
11 Feb 09
I am not sure what to tell you. If you really like this girl, and you are willing to stop being friends with your friend to get her, then go ahead .But seeing as you don't seem to want to do that, I think you should access whether she really is the one.