is your heart been in love lately? is it still beating ?
By hotsummer
@hotsummer (13835)
Philippines
February 11, 2009 8:06am CST
Not mine. So it is obvious then i will not have a happy valentine. If you are happily in love, how will you celebrate it with your special someone. If you are still not in love, how long have you been out of love. Can you say that you have once had a true love but fell out of love only. Or did you consider it just a love that is not meant to be. Well most of those people i love, i would say that are not meant to be i guess. though i have love them in a way. But i could not tell them that i have found in them those qualities of an ideal partner. some have more qualities than others i have been in love with . I mean i didn't have much releationship. but i have faller in love or had crushes with many or some fling with some.
One thing i had learned, love endures while some physical attraction does not.
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@mysdianait (66009)
• Italy
15 Feb 09
I am not 'in love' right now and after being in and out of that state toomany times I have decided I hope it never happens again. After the last time ended I am fed up with having to start all over again. As you say the physical attraction is one thing but that does not always mean it will turn into love. I'd rather not find out, if there is a next time, and have decided to not venture into it if it happens another time.
I got round Valentines day by working the evening shift 
I think I would rather be happy outside a relationship than unhappy and insecure of the future inside one. That's how I feel now and it will take something really different to make me change my mind. If my heart starts beating again I shall tell it to calm down 
I think I would rather be happy outside a relationship than unhappy and insecure of the future inside one. That's how I feel now and it will take something really different to make me change my mind. If my heart starts beating again I shall tell it to calm down @hotsummer (13835)
• Philippines
15 Feb 09
i totally agree that it is better out of love happy than being in one sad. i have not been in love that often. so i still have the yearning to experience true love. hopefully it does happen. and i want to prove to myself that true love exist and i would definitely be able to find one if i learn where to look at and if i know how to recognize one when i meet one. i just hope that i do recognize it when i see it. i can see i am kind of idealistic person that believe in love conquers all and believe in the impossible. that somewhere out there possible just under my nose is the right person for me. and the one that will truly make me happy.
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@mysdianait (66009)
• Italy
15 Feb 09
I believe that every one of us has the other half out there somewhere. Maybe we search for it too hard and we should just wait for it to find us.
Maybe it is already staring at us and we are too blind to see.
Good luck and I hope you will let us know if things change for you
@kiblespatrol (19)
• Philippines
11 Feb 09
i can;t say much hotsummer but i know that if you are in a relationship, make the most out of it...enjoy each others company while you are still together..at this point of time you should have found yourself a good woman to be with the rest of your life..i know someday you will find yours that will make you the man you are..
@hotsummer (13835)
• Philippines
15 Feb 09
i jsut hope that the person would soon come along. it is hard to be out of love. but i wanna make sure it will be going to be true love before i get serious in it.
