How to be truly happy?

February 17, 2009 12:36am CST
my friend broke up with her boyfriend just before valentines day and we were shocked of the timing. she said she's dating someone else and feels guilty so she broke up with her boyfriend. they have been together for years now and the guy is faithful and cool but she says she's not happy with him even though he is kind and she knows he loves her very much. how can you be truly happy with someone then? how do you know when to stick to your guy and when to let go? as of now, she is still confused if she made the right decision or not...
3 responses
@modstar (9610)
• Philippines
27 Mar 09
She made the right decision because it would officially make her a cheater if she decides to stay with her boyfriend at the same time making him look like a fool. She just justified her own wrongdoing. If she's not happy, she should've called it quits before she goes out dating. It appears to me that she's out to fish the guy whom she thinks she's compatible with then leave the old guy in the cold.
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• Philippines
30 Mar 09
yeah, we were telling her that she is being unfair to her boyfriend, now her ex boyfriend. she broke up with him
@iamsolucky (1243)
• Philippines
27 Mar 09
Maybe this kind of situation is hard to explain, its about feelings and its always feelings that gets in the way. people get confused about love, if the relationship gets boring they will immediately decide to quit. Well truth about this is we have to know about the deep meaning of love. And we have to examine ourselves how we love people. Sometimes its just attraction but not love at all, we only like people because of outside appearance, then lovers get to know each other better in months and it turns ugly. Its good to love people because of thier heart. happy mylotting!
@forslahiri (1042)
• India
17 Feb 09
Hi, Love is not a commodity that it can be weighed and compared.It's a true feeling where the right & left brain's verdicts both are important.We are often confused when we give priority of one brain's verdict and ignore other.Love is balancing both.If we are not sensitive, we 'll do injustice with self and others. =Lahiri,Kolkata,India.