I'm sick of Psychological Vampires

Netherlands
February 23, 2009 4:45pm CST
We all know them: Those that always complain how hard their lives are, how everything in life is against them and it is always someone or something else's fault. That type of person simply klings to you for help and won't let go untill he/she has sucked you dry!Well I am sick of it and just want to say to that type of people:Take some responsibility, you are living your life, you are in charge so if anything in it doesn't meet your requirements then you go change it!Don't get me wrong, evrybody can hit a streak of bad luck and need some help and that's ok, but there are some that turned relying on others to do their dirty work for them into a freakin profession. To those I want to say just stay the hell out of my life cause I am not falling for it. Life stinks, go buy a freakin helmet! We all know someone like that I am sure. Am I the only one that feels like this?
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@diansinta (7544)
• Indonesia
28 Feb 09
Hi there kraven2, I always meet these ind of people, always un-invited and after they gone, im so exhousted. My friend doesn't even realized that. Or may be i been sucking other and doesn't reilized it, we are all some time does the same.
@Barbietre (1438)
• United States
24 Feb 09
Yes, we have family members like that, and sadly they make it so hard to be around that it makes them complain more. My theory is that in the end we have total responsibility for all of our decisions. Even if circumstances or pressures from others make it hard, in the end the decisions are still your to make. I have a freind who I do love but make sure if and when I talk to her, I am feeling up enough to listen and respond and have enough time to literally waste. And you are so right, they seem to drain the lifeblood out of you then.