not so good a friend

@1gidget (152)
United States
February 24, 2009 8:24am CST
Has anyone ever slept with a friend's boyfriend/girlfriend? My friend (not best friend, but a fairly good friend) didn't deserve that, I know. My friend's boyfreind (who I slept with) never felt any guilt or shame, unlike me. I never thought I would do such a despicable thing, but it happened. Actually it was a long time ago, sereval years. I must have a conscience at least! So, please, tell me that I'm not the only one!
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5 responses
• United States
24 Feb 09
i never did that to any of my friends. i did have a friend who thought that i did and so she set out to make my life absolutely miserable. it worked. i still hurt to this day. she decided to sleep with the same guy that i was. they ended up getting together for awhile. afterwards she told me she never loved him, she just wanted to hurt me like i hurt her. i still don't think she believes that i never slept with her boyfriend. i think she just needed to blame someone when things went wrong with them and he was my friend at the time.
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@1gidget (152)
• United States
25 Feb 09
That sounds terrible. Women need to stick together and not be crazy!
@xlinzixx (511)
24 Feb 09
i'm sorry i havn't because that's just wrong i would never dream of sleeping with my friends boyfriend never mind doing it and of course he didnt feel guilty because he was having his cake and eating it. ive had a freidn sleep with my boyfriend before though a long time a go and it hurt like hell i could never bring myself to forgive them.
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@forslahiri (1042)
• India
24 Feb 09
Hi, One small momentary mistake will haunt you, upto last day... U r alone or not is NO CONSOLATION! =Lahiri,Kolkata,India.
@1gidget (152)
• United States
25 Feb 09
Oh.
@okoyskabo (186)
• Philippines
24 Feb 09
i haven't done this to my friends and never will i do this to my friends. because i believe in the golden rule. if i don't want my friends to do this to me, i would not also do it to my friends by sleeping with their boyfriends.
@Amber4106 (541)
• United States
24 Feb 09
I personally haven't ever done that (I have been accused) but if I had, I would definetely feel guilty and shameful. I can only imagine what I would feel like if someone did that to me, so there's no way that I could do that to someone else. One of my friends (who was also my roommate) in college thought that I slept with her boyfriend while she was in the hospital. He in fact stayed over at our apartment, along with three other mutual friends. One of the other girls told her that he slept in our bedroom (which he did), so she jumped to the conclusion that he slept with me that night. He in fact slept in her bed that night, by himself, and he talked about how worried he was about her and that he was going first thing in the morning to visit her. When I went to the hospital the next morning to see her, I was absolutely shocked that she really thought that I would do that to her. Her boyfriend was hurt also for being accused of cheating on her. So no, I can't honestly say that I have ever slept with one of my friend's boyfriends.