Happiness or Securities? ? ?

Philippines
February 28, 2009 3:07pm CST
Some people my already know what they going to answer in this kind of scenario. but there's still a lot of peolple confusing what are they going to choose between being pratical or emotional, or simply i say, between happiness and securities. . . Here's the scenarios: there are 2 person to choose for 1st person,middle class, have enough money to compensate his/her own needs, low profile, no dreams in life but he can make you smile all the time and can make you laugh anytime or he/she can make you happy no matter what the situation it is,comfortable being with that person and he/she LOVE YOU SO MUCH. 2nd person, have enough money to have a big family, rich, all the wealth in this world, he had it all, have dreams, he can also make you smile but not all the time, he can make u happy but not in the the worst situtaionbut he/she can help you in financial needs and he/she LOVE YOU SO MUCH. now choose, happiness or securities?
4 responses
• United States
28 Feb 09
This is tough, truly. I think you should choose on your own. Either way, there will be times in which you will regret and always think what would it have been with that other person. Believe me, I know the feeling. But you know, you should go with whoever loves you more and of course makes you the most happy.
• Philippines
1 Mar 09
what if the 1st person loves you more, but you didn't feel happy? and the 2nd one makes you happy but you didn't feel that he/she loves you more than the 1st one? hahaha, hmmm,i think your in a situtuation like that now??? do you need some advice?or someone to talk too? i just made that discussion to make people think what they want in there life.
• United States
1 Mar 09
I've been in your situation a lot of times, and I usually picked from my intuition. Or whoever I kinda saw had more of a future than the other. Nah, I'm married now and not in anything close to that. hahahahaha
• Philippines
9 Mar 09
oopppzzz. . your already married ha. its not obvious because you only look 18. lolz! hahah but anyway, thanks for the comment. . but still i choose to be happy than my securities. lolz. .
@reckon21 (3487)
• Philippines
1 Mar 09
Can I have both, please? Just kidding. I think I choose happiness. Security can be achieved if we really believed that we can reach it. But happiness is hard to find by. It's like a rare gem that difficult to find. When we are happy, everything follows.
• Philippines
1 Mar 09
wouh!^_^ good decision my friend. have you ever experience that kind of scenario?? hahaha. .
@n30wing (4771)
• Philippines
9 Mar 09
For me what will make my heart happy and feeling love... love cannot be bought by material things or money. Well if I work hard I can earn money to provide my own family even she is just a middle class. What counts is we both love each other, and can face everything in this world together. Money can't buy love! Love can make you happy and feeling good inside you. So I'll still go with happiness, anyway I can't bring all those money in heaven when I die hahaha!What is important I have good memories to remember. Good night!
• Philippines
2 Mar 09
maybe, i'd rather have the 1st person...HAPPINESS?? even if that person has no dreams in life at all at least we're happy..and since we are together, may be we can create our dreams together...in a relationship, what is important is happiness for it to work...it is possible that you can have all the securities you need, all the wealth if u work on it but real happiness is hard to find...