Just friends!! Do you feel so?

India
March 1, 2009 6:37am CST
Do you feel a good friend of opposite gender can remain so lifelong? Just plain true friends? Do you have one? Since how long? What is your friend's ratio? More girls or boys?
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@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
2 Mar 09
I think its possible if both have a strong sense of their priorities. I have known friends who used to have opposite genders as their best pals but as they grew and got attracted to someone even though the friendship was still there but in a different way. And i also have a friend who married his best friend. So either ways its possible. I think, its subjective! And even though I am not sure about the ratio I think there has to be a subtle undefined attraction which is more than just friendship at some point, in most cases. I kind of have friends belonging to both genders. My best friend is a guy and very close is a girl and i seem to like people who have more of my values and wave length. And that's irrspective of gender. What about you Daffodil?
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• India
4 Mar 09
That's it! Its possible either ways. So happy to know that. I wanted someone wiser to give the opinion. And I got it here.Thanks my dear chocoliscious mimpi
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@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
5 Mar 09
You really hold me in high esteem golgappi! But it feels nice when your opinion matters. And dear, I can sniff of something going on in your life! Would you mind telling me. I might come up with interesting suggestions that you could find amusing. PM me immediately..
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• India
5 Mar 09
Nah! Just I wanted to be equipped in case........ You know how it is.........Bade bade Desho mein chhoti-chhoti baatein hoti rehti hain Nothing serious, honestly.
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@nut_nut (251)
8 Mar 09
sure i can lol im lez. my best friend is a woman and we have an amazing connection. thas all tho. i have as many guy friends as girls i think but alot of gay or bi friends to lol. i think most people have but ppl dont talk about that unless u say actually im gay/bi which is when u establish a connection and they have gay/bi friends through the same so u end up knowing alot. not through scousting out specifically gay/bi lol i have loads of straight friends to
• Philippines
2 Mar 09
I think that it is possible to have a good friend of the opposite gender. I have a guy best friend, and we've been this way since we were twelve years old. We're turning twenty seven now, so that's roughly sixteen years of friendship. We never thought of being together; he's a brother to me, always there during the important and not-so important moments of my life. My boyfriend never got insecure of him, because he knows we are just friends and we can never go beyond that. I enjoy this sense of family and friendship that we share because we do not find this in just anybody; I am very thankful that I have this best friend and I know that we will be best friends for life.
@tatiana07 (497)
• Philippines
1 Mar 09
i'm not sure about that because i don't have a "boy friend" in real sense of the word.maybe i have them as casual friends but not the true meaning of friends wherein you can go to them in times of troubles..but i have lots of girl friends.. wink :) happy mylotting!
@iamsolucky (1241)
• Philippines
1 Mar 09
I got a lot more gal friends, but my best friend is a boy, and yes he is my boyfriend. I think the best thing to do is to let you loved one to be your best friend in life, i feel so secure and i feel so happy with him. i got lots of gal friends but few of them are real nice. Gals love to be in competition always which i dont like. Who looks more beautiful, sexier, nice hairs, and a lot of stuff. I only trust few girls with my personal secrets too. Its not because i dont trust them, but really i only trust my mama, sister and boyfriend when it comes to big big secret of mine. they wont make fun of me im sure. Happy mylotting!
@kometer (151)
• China
1 Mar 09
I'm not suer.It's a kind of difficult.