Are you OK if your spouse doesn't tell you everything?
March 1, 2009 9:47am CST
I'm in dilemma, I know my spouse loves me a lot, but I still believe that he keeps something in heart and doesn't want to tell me. This makes me uneasy sometimes. On one hand, I think lovers should be open to each other, to express themselves well and unhide anything. But on other hand, I would think even lover should reserve a privacy for themselve, and I should respect that. What do you think?
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• United States
1 Mar 09
I think it is a little more healthy to keep some things to yourself in a relationship, but I guess it depends on what the secret is. My personal feelings are that you should leave the past in the past. If there is something in your past that doesn't affect your relationship, it's yours. If it affects your current relationship, I think your partner has the right to know.