What do you do to get rid of boredom in day to day life?

@dpk262006 (58675)
Delhi, India
March 2, 2009 3:51am CST
Do not you think that we live our life mechanically? We get up everyday, do our regular chores, take bath and get ready for our work and reach at our work place. Make ourselves busy in the office work, take lunch in the lunch time or in between take sips of tea or coffee, evening comes, time to go back to our homes, catch our respective vehicles and return to our homes. Dispose of some pending work, go for some entertainment like listening to music or watching TV etc. then go for dinner and then as usual go to our bed. Those who stay at homes, I believe, also follow a set routine, probably. Does a thought comes in your mind that life has become monotonous and routine, you keep on doing everyday tasks mechanically and subconsciously or say automatically. My question to you is – What do you do to get rid of drudgery which creeps in everyday. Do you feel that weekends are enough to break the chain? Do you try to experiment with your daily routine to get rid of boredom or you just flow with the water? Your considered thoughts please. Thanks in advance.
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@kiran8 (15348)
• Mangalore, India
2 Mar 09
Hi dpk, I have so far never felt that life is a bore ! It does get tedious and difficult and may be even unbearable- there is so much variety . In our house there are things happening all the time , either someone is coming or going and i too travel quite a bit, and, there is the net which keeps me nicely occupied during my free time. All in all i am not bored or find the routine a drudgery as yet..
@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
4 Mar 09
Yes, it is true that one get attend to guests every day, one requires some quality time for herself/himself, as well.
@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
3 Mar 09
So you keep attending guests and enjoy being their host. Surfing on the net is one of the interesting options to get rid of boredom. It is good that you know very well, how to keep yourself busy. Thanks for sharing.
@kiran8 (15348)
• Mangalore, India
3 Mar 09
Hi dpk, not exactly that , I do like to have guests but not all the time..sometimes you want to be all alone and do things as you want instead of doing things as others want them. I always dream of being all alone and be free to lead my life..just kidding, because it is an impossible dream
@aisaellis22 (6445)
• United States
2 Mar 09
Hello deepak! My daily routine is wake up in the morning, eat breakfast, take a bath, face the computer and talk to my husband, rest and some other necessary things. I don't usually go out unless I have some important things to do. [i] I am waiting for my visa now so I could join my husband. I actually just follow with the flow. I admit I got bored sometimes and my only happiness is when my husband and I will talk online. [/i]
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@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
2 Mar 09
Hi! Aisa! So it is Computer and internet which keeps you busy all the day and specially talking to your husband, hopefully you talk to him on-line or do you talk to him on phone? I can understand that when you are staying away from him, your conversation with him becomes all the more important. So, when are you likely to join him? How soon? Thanks for enriching the post.
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@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
4 Mar 09
It is good that your remain in constant touch. Hope you join each other sooner than later. All the best from my end.
• United States
2 Mar 09
well, we are talking both..we are talking online sometimes and we're talking on the phone.. I would hopefully join him probably 2 -3 months from now..hope it would be earlier..
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@balasri (26537)
• India
2 Mar 09
Well beating the boredom is in our mind and in how much are we satisfied with the available activities we try to kill the boredom.Good music,excellent books,a soulful conversation with your life mate,time spent in any form with you children,and the quality time with smart friends.People who crave for more start in search of the truth and the meaning of this life which may work or wreck one.
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@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
4 Mar 09
Hi! Bala! Listening to music and some soulful conversation with your life mate appear good options. I hope you know the ways and means to make yourself busy. You are a genius. Thanks for dropping in.
@balasri (26537)
• India
4 Mar 09
It is always pleasure seeing you the gentle soul Deepak. "Spread a smile"
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@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
4 Mar 09
@lkbooi (16070)
• Malaysia
2 Mar 09
Really dpk, we would get bored and feel monotonous as well to do the daily routine repeatedly days after days. So we have some ways to make our daily a bit different. My husband and I would make a little change of the arrangement of furniture in our house. We try to get a new gadget so that we could have the fun by indulging in using it. If we have save enough money we would try to upgrade the facilities or the structure of the house. We always try to save some money as well to have vacation in different places so that we could get ourselves refreshed again. If we don’t have sufficient expenses we then enjoy having economical local vacation during low season. We at least would feel better if we could stay away from our house or work place for some time. Happy posting and take care.
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@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
3 Mar 09
Changing furniture or setting of the house appears a very bright idea. Going on vacation is the best, we all can do to get rid of boredom. I appreciate your response. Many thanks for sharing and enriching the post.
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@mayka123 (16584)
• India
2 Mar 09
While in the office if I get bored with work I log on to mylot or check my personal emails. Sometimes I just play some games online for a few minutes. I do not have sufficient time to finish my house work. So there is no time to get bored at home. But even then if I want to break away from the routine I just put on some music and sit in my room and read some books or magazines that I have stocked up and waiting to be read.
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@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
2 Mar 09
I know there is no end to house hold work specially for women. Reading magazines and listening to music are two very good options, I also do the same. But do you feel that we live mechanically? Thanks for sharing and enriching the post.
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@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
4 Mar 09
Yes, I also feel the same way, we are living like robots and life is simply mechanical and we just live it.
@mayka123 (16584)
• India
2 Mar 09
Yes life is become very mechanical. Half the time we are trying to please our bosses and colleagues. Then our spouse and kids. The rest of the time it is family, then the extended family, neighbours and friends. So where is the time for ourselves. We are living our lives like robots.
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• China
3 Mar 09
I like to read books or see movies to get rid of boredom.And sometime I may tell my husband that I feel so boring,and ask for him to have a tour together. If my husband was too busy to come along with me. I like to drive by myself to do a little sightseeing.
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@Darkwing (21583)
2 Mar 09
Yes, it's sad but true that most of us are stuck in a rut, so far as daily routine goes. I break the monotony by going out for a walk in the countryside, or calling my sister and inviting her out for lunch. It pays to get out of the village sometimes. I don't go out of the house to work, and you're right... we do tend to get into a monotonous routine. Brightest Blessings, my friend.
@Darkwing (21583)
5 Mar 09
You're welcome my friend, and I have to say there are not enough hours in the day sometimes. lol.
@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
3 Mar 09
So you keep yourself busy indulging in some countryside walk etc. or inviting your sister. I understand that you know ways and means to keep yourself busy. Thanks for sharing and joining in.
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@aj2006 (1534)
• Philippines
27 May 09
I pray, when I feel bored I pray. and I feel good knowing and realizing that there is a lot of thing that I can do in a day to day basis, not to mention the everyday routine you're superb in finishing on a daily basis. I'm glad I am a working mother and twenty four hours a day, is truly not enough to finish all my task as a mother, wife and employee in a day's time. How can I be bored? there is no time at all.. :)
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@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
27 May 09
Hi aj2006! (Our log in number 2006 is same, incidentely) So you pray, when you are not doing anything else. I agree with you that a working mother always remains busy and there is no time to get bored, even 24 hours are not enough for her. Thanks for sharing.
@Sreekala (34312)
• India
3 Mar 09
Hi Deepak, Presently the word 'boredom' is not in my dictionary (lol). I agree your points; life is going on with same routine. But having a small kid at home my time is passing so fast even without my knowledge. May be in a later stage I may feel the same. Presently I am enjoying with him.
@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
4 Mar 09
I can understand your position and I know that you remain quite busy.Thanks for sharing.
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@Sreekala (34312)
• India
4 Mar 09
@hdjohnson (2981)
• United States
3 Mar 09
~ Respond to discussions like this one on mylot and Gather. I really enjoy enteracting with people, so I don't mind sharing what I know about life and in exchange I learn from others in the process. I don't know about you, but I rarely have those drudgery days anymore. When I'm bored, I find a good movie, eat my favorite snack(s), go online and just talk to people. More like type to people. I don't allow life to get me down and I definitely don't allow myself to get upset anymore. I enjoy life to the fullest and for as long as I will have breath in my body, I will continue to live this way. It is how I've been taught/trained in order to keep stress at bay and to live longer on this planet. So in essence I don't sweat the small stuff that can potentially creep in and distract us from the real goal of achieving what we have to accomplish in life. You see I know I'm here to be a blessing to someone, by the life I live. I know that by sharing my thoughts and words with others, a lot of times they will be encourgaged or motivated to change something about themselves that they didn't know existed before within them. So I keep myself ready to share my life experiences with them. You never know how much you impact other people, just by talking with them. Sometimes the best gift you can give someone is your time, just to listen to them.
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@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
4 Mar 09
hdjohnson! I am really impressed with your response and your way of thinking. You know very well how to keep yourself busy by indulging in various activities and mylot is one of them. Yes, you have given a good idea that I can listen to some friends and near and dear ones to make them happy, because now a days no one has time to listen.
@pickwick (858)
• India
2 Mar 09
When life becomes monotonous I look for a change.First of all I might just change the furniture set up in the house.I make new friends.I try out new hobbies- like if it was tarrot reading one year,you find my house filled with visitors curious about it;or some time ago I was crazy about the stock market and I sent my whole time there in the stock broking firm with a whole lot of new people who became close friends.Now the passion is for meditation so I have a whole new set of books and CD's and am surrounded by people who love satsang.So life is not just a routine for a person like me who tries to be jack of all.
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@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
2 Mar 09
Hi! Dear! So you try out new hobbies, it sounds great to me and in this way you get to learn different arts. It is really fantastic on your part, to learn so many new things. Have you become perfect in tarrot reading? Would like you to share some meditation tips with me, please tell. Thanks for enriching the post.
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• United States
3 Mar 09
It does seem at times that our lives are programmed, and we live like robots, going through the same routine day in and day out. When boredom sets in there are several things to add a little excitement. 1. call/ meet up with a friend 2. go for a walk in the park 3. go shopping 4. go to a movie If you don't feel like going outide then you could, 1. Prepare a nice meal for yourself 2. Have a nice dessert 3. Rent or download a movie 4. Play a game of some sort 5. do something to earn extra money These are just some suggestions, to add some change and excitement to the typical daily routine. Hope it helped some.
@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
4 Mar 09
I am really impressed with your response and your way of thinking. You know very well how to keep yourself busy by indulging in various activities and mylot is one of them. Yes, you have given a good ideas to make myself busy. Thanks for your suggestions.
@kquiming (2997)
• Philippines
2 Mar 09
yeah, i always try to sizzle things up, just so they would be different than the usual. you know what i mean? like, instead of wearing my hair this way or that, i experiment with something else and wear my hair with something new or different. i also chat with different people a lot, just about anything and everything under the sun. isn't that the same thing we do here in mylot? Yeah, and my lot really takes boredom away, anyday.
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@csrobins (1120)
• United States
3 Mar 09
Those are simple yet effective ways to keep from feeling bored. I'm not a big talker, but I definitely need to try some new stuff with my hair. How do you get inspired with hair ideas and styles?
@kquiming (2997)
• Philippines
4 Mar 09
whenever i see some hairstyle i really like on magazines what i do is cut out the picture and show it to my hairstylist and try to make it somehow work with my current hair... or if i can, i'll experiment on it on my own at home . =p
@venchaul (541)
• China
2 Mar 09
I often log in the net and sing loudly to the music I like to release my boredom! sometimes I'd like to share the boredom with my friends included the friends from the net who are concerned me so much! They are so kind to help me out of the boredom and sorrows!
@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
4 Mar 09
Getting in touch with frineds and surfing net are apparently great ways to get rid of boredom. I hope you know very well the ways and means to keep yourself busy. Thanks for dropping in.
@venchaul (541)
• China
4 Mar 09
My pleasure to drop in and expect you to have another good topic!
@polachicago (18716)
• United States
2 Mar 09
I wish to know what boredom is...so far I have no time to feel boredom. I have so much to do on my free time, but no time....in the other hand my job is very creative, it is hard to feel boredom...
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@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
3 Mar 09
POla! So you keep yourself busy indulging in creative activities. It is really great to know. I understood that you know ways and means to keep yourself busy and you do not feel boredom at any point of time. Thanks for sharing and joining in.
@checapricorn (16061)
• United States
2 Mar 09
[i]Hi dpk, I go out with friends sometimes or just enjoy surfing online! I am always looking forward for weekends where hubby and I can go out and take a break from regular routine! But, during weekend...I am always occupied with chores and working in mylot helps me forget that I am bored already! LOL![/i]
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@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
3 Mar 09
Checa! Going out with frineds and surfing net are good options. I hope you know the ways and means to make yourself busy. Thanks for dropping in.
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• Hong Kong
2 Mar 09
I usually went online checking out different things, or stay at mylot to keep myself busy. Or I would read a book. I think keeping one busy is really important for not getting bored. Sometimes I do spend the weekend watching some TV series to kill the time too, it's so occupying!
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@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
4 Mar 09
Reading a good back or surfing net are apparently great ways to get rid of boredom. I hope you know very well the ways and means to keep yourself busy. Thanks for dropping in.
@comfort55 (1574)
• India
3 Mar 09
hi dpk, few months back I also started more or less the same discussion and was quite moved with a response of one of our fellow mylotters. Two days back, this woman's house was fully gutted in fire. She wrote that we should be thankful atleast we have a routine and added that she does not know from where she should start her day. This had a deep impact on my mind, after that whenever I get bored, I always try to take things in a positive manner.
@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
4 Mar 09
Hi! Comfort55! I am sorry I did not know that you started a similar discussion. I am really moved after reading the incidence quoted in your response. I agree it must be very shocking and terrifying for that woman to start her day after her house was gutted in fire. Many thanks for sharing and enriching the post.
@iamsolucky (1241)
• Philippines
3 Mar 09
They said " if your bored, then your boring!", . Well, i always like to treat myself after a hard days work, i go and watch movies, i go out and run, i join aerobic class, talk with people regarding bible and stuff, joining mylot. I write, i dance, i meditate, i read self help books about how to fight depression and all. There are life's ups and down, but im still here, just doing my purpose in this world, and that is to love and care people who need me. Happy mylotting!!
@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
4 Mar 09
Some great thoughts by you! I am impressed. Are you unmarried? Thanks for sharing.
• China
3 Mar 09
To get rid of boring time. I usually stay with my friends, chatting with them, listening to their words inside and trying to help or to get help from them. This is really good, i think. Of course, i would go walking streets alone or with my family or friends. what's more, hiking,fishing,surfing and doing some sports are also very good. The most important thing is that, u should consider urself as living a life ,but not killing the time. Otherwise, u would probably kill urself . haha!
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@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
4 Mar 09
Going out with frineds and hiking, fishing and surfing net are good options. I hope you know the ways and means to make yourself busy. You are a newbie, however, I am impressed with your thought that we should 'live' life, instead of 'killing' time. Thanks for dropping in.