would you fight for the one you love?

Philippines
March 3, 2009 2:00am CST
have you ever experienced that you were so in love with someone but then that someone loves another...do you think you still have the chance of winning his/her love considering that you two are so close and he/she once was in love with you?...would you fight for your love to have the upper hand? or you would just let the love you are feeling fade and regret one day that you should have gave it a try?
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13 responses
• Philippines
24 Mar 09
At this very moment I am on the same situation... Its really difficult to love someone who loves another man... For me its best to let her know about your feelings and it is up to her to accept it or decline it..I don't have even the right to hold her back for I don't own her life.. We just meet for almost a month, its just a glaze of an eye when I caught her eyes staring at me, at that moment I was really wondering what's with her... As time goes by, I learned to love her for she's so talkative, actually she looks like a guy hahaha but she is really a woman in a sense,hmm physically she is a woman... I don't really know what's with her maybe she is the only gurl who knows how to deal with me...I really love her much.. Actually she told me that she has a boy friend and I am only hoping that I could win her...But I know her, we have same principle in life.. So far until this very moment, I decided to let her go, as they said "The art of letting go" will help us to decide what is right and what is wrong...a year from now he will get marry Wish her all the happiness in the world ... To miss "Rose" not her real name I love you.....
• Philippines
24 Mar 09
maybe she does not look like a guy, but rather act like a guy...correction please..
• Philippines
24 Mar 09
Well for me he looks like a guy, the shape of the face, but honestly she is such a wonderful girl that I love to be with forever.... She is not that pretty, a little bit hot cause she's always wet, she keep saying its so hot here hahaha even if its so cold my goodness I don't know what skin she has hihihih She talk a lot, mention names I didn't even met in my entire life hahaha well she's really one of a kind, she's really wonderful and theres only one thing I ask heaven, to be with her forever....
• Philippines
24 Mar 09
wet?? what do you mean? she's always sweating? hehehehe...make it clear...don't let other people think the bad connotation of "she's always wet" it connotes another thing... anyways...what matters most is beauty inside..then the physycal beauty will then follow...
• Philippines
24 Mar 09
i'll just step back and let him go...he's happy with his girl...and if we are really meant for each other then, we will still see each other in some other time where there are no complications anymore..no people to hurt with our decision..
• Philippines
24 Mar 09
Vivid_may I agree with you "If he return she's yours but if not its just that he is not your destiny" life is too short to waste our time with these things..There are still other things we need to get focus.."She said to me in a letter" "There are relationships in life that better to stay friends than lovers" which I agree as well.. And I am hoping that I can make it, for its really hard for me to let her go...But I have no other choice, its really needed, she love other man and she's serious with it and I don't like to mess up her life... If anyone familiar with this line "Letting go is just another way to say I always love you so...." its really true...
• Philippines
24 Mar 09
Yeah Vivi_may as you said "If you will keep on searching, then the harder that you will find her, but instead let love find way" I couldn't agree more... There are somethings we could not really understand,neither can't explain but no matter what we must accept the reality and move on...
• Philippines
24 Mar 09
you know what unifreelance..you are such a guy...i mean it is very seldom nowadays to find a guy like you...you are not selfish..if you'll stay the same, then you find the girl that is really meant for you. try not to search for ms. right because eventually, if you will keep on searching, then the harder that you will find her. But instead, let love find a way so that you will meet your girl. You'll be a good man to her. I can see it.. You have all the time in the world. Enjoy life to the fullest, because there are no rewinds in our life.. Just keep your head up high, and be proud to say, that you are a man.
@ratyz5 (7808)
• Philippines
4 Mar 09
Hmmm, I have encountered situations like that before, well, except the part wherein that person once was in love with me before. I have always remained silent with my feelings for I wouldn't like to take chances on ruining the friendship that we already have. Of course, I can't deny the feeling of regret but, nothing would happen even if I think about it at all..
@aisaellis22 (6445)
• United States
4 Mar 09
Hello mystic888soul! I won't fight for my love to someone especially that someone doesn't love me anymore. It would be hopeless then because you can't force someone to love you. I would probably move on and found someone whom I will love and will appreciate my love and will love me even more.
@pratik87 (1927)
• India
4 Mar 09
yes of course if you dont fight for the one you love what are you going to fight for?
• Philippines
24 Mar 09
love is not selfish...that is why there is letting go..even if letting go is the hardest part, but it is also through letting go that you will free yourself, discover the stronger you, and be able to face life's challenges more confidently.
• Philippines
24 Mar 09
Love is always patient,love is always kind,love is never envious or arrogant with pride, nor is she conceited.
@brew2x (3094)
• Philippines
3 Mar 09
I think I will just let my feelings fade. I've had my chances but it didn't work. If he is happy with someone else then I will just be happy for him. There is no points fighting if he is not fighting with me.
@n30wing (4767)
• Philippines
3 Mar 09
Well for me it's better to try and winning her back, then just regretting it in the end. But I will still respect her decision, it's her ball not mine. If I loss her and did not win her back, what counts is her happiness cause she deserves the happiness in this world. For me it's better to feel love then not having felt love at all. Anyway in love you don't ask in return. Have a nice day to you!
@losadise (38)
• China
3 Mar 09
Frankly,I don't have the courage to fight.I think the only thing I can do is just to be a friend of his.
@o_utsider (371)
• China
3 Mar 09
Maybe my boyfriend fought for our love. At first,I didn't love him,when he let me become his GF,I refused.But he didn't give up,maybe he think he still have the chance of winning my love,maybe he think that I would fall in with him.He became my best friend at my side.After 3 years,we really fell in love.Now we are a couple of sweety lovers. Thanks for my BF fought for our love.
@krajibg (11923)
• Guwahati, India
3 Mar 09
Nop, I would-be the last person to fight. Love is love. If the person I love does not love me and is more inclined towards some body else why should I go and ask her forcefully to love me rather? It would be not only rude but also foolish.
• Philippines
3 Mar 09
im not fighting for someone who doesnt love me at all i'd rather take it to God because i know he'll give me the best love story ever..
@knyn23 (71)
• Philippines
3 Mar 09
no. i'll let her go.